The Blind Trust

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October 29, 2022

World is full of surprises and surprised people. They are different kind of people. In my point of view, there are the following four categories of people.

  1. Kind & Generous: They want to live for others

  2. Nice: They do good in return of something else

  3. Greedy: They want to have everything with them, however it doesn't matter to them if other has or hasn't it

  4. Worst: They want everything. Not only they want everything but rather they hate others to have any of those things they want. Sometimes they take those things from them by force or via some alternative methods.


Background

I hope you about my best friend and classmate @KomalWaheed. For those they don't know about her a short intro about her.

She belongs to a poor or maybe s middle class family. He father is clerk, all her siblings have been getting education. His father is the only source of income and an honest employee. For a father of a middle class, who is an honest clerk and the only source of income it i dificult to meet household and educational expenses. However, he has been providing every facility to his children required for education.

Komal Waheed is one of the girls who has been supporting their families. She being a responsible member of the family has been working as a freelancer and sewing clothes to support her father.

Though her father tell her to focus on studies, but she says, the work won't disturb her studies.

She is a student of Bachelor of Computer Science, 7th semester (my classmate). I won't say, she is position holder but very good at studies and got, I guess, 3.38 CGPA so far.

That was a brief intro about her.

The Blind Trust

She had a customer for whom she had been developing apps. She already delivered a few small apps.

Around two months ago, he ask her to develop an app, she was promised the quicker she deliver the app the more she will be be paid. Since she needed semester fee, more or less $300, to deposit. She worked hard and delivered the app ASAP. You may find more about it in My project my everything.

The fee required for current semester is:

  • Fee for the semester is: Rs.38000/- (~$ 175)

  • Bus charges for the semester:28000/- (~$ 130)

  • TOTAL AMOUNT REQUIRED: Rs.66000/- (~$ 305)

After submission she long waited for his reply. After a week or more he responded and asked her he will check the app and will be back in few days. After days as promised he again showed and asked her for some minor corrections, bugs etc, which she did within no day.

Another few days passed away, again a minor bugs.... She fixed and submitted the final version.

Boooom!!

She got.....

NOTHING

His WhatsApp is offline, no response from email either..... even nothing. Full silence.

She was expecting around 70% - 80% of the semester dues (around $220 -$250) to be covered from that app but the blind trust ruined everything.

He earned her trust by asking her a few small apps, and suddenly for a big one and that the end.

Why people do like this? Play with the trust of others. Now she learned her lesson but it is too far away.

I supported her to pay semester due but she will return every penny back that's all I know about her. I guess I should have not mention here but I did.

If anyone want to support her detail is given in her blog My project my everything


Closing Arguments

Blind trust can be harmful and lead to failure sometimes. In this case, she should have used the forums live Fiverr, Upwork, Freelancers etc. Or I guess she should have either requested a milestone or she should have provided a trail version of the app.

Everyone cannot be a good one. Not every person has feelings. I know how hurt she was, when she finally come to the conclusion that her day night struggle given her nothing.

Always trust yourself, but never trust others more than yourself, especially when you don't know them or when it is about soft things.


A Humble Request

Encourage her in her last blog, that is all in want and matter.


That's all for today

Nothing to say more.

I tried to be more precise and to the point, but still it is a lenghty blog. Sorry for a long long blog. I couldn't miss any of the above question.

Thanks for your precious time and reading this. See you next time in my other article.

Have a great time, and enjoy what you are and what you have. Stay safe and blessed.

Please remember me in your prayers.

@LeonaReed


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This trust issue has landed me into trouble that traumatized me. Yes it didn't make me to stop trusting people but it is difficult for me to do that. Like the writer said, trust yourself more ...

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2 years ago

That is correct and true, however everyone has their own point of view and thoughts

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2 years ago

It's really sad we can't trust others because there are bad people around, that's unfortunately a fact. Sometimes life's lessons are really hard, a hard time to learn better for a next time. My best wishes to her really. I'm gonna check here post too...

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2 years ago

Yes we can't trust everyone, especially when you don't know him/her well. She had her lesson but it was a very hard time for her as she needed to deposit the semester dues ASAP, and she was sure she will get the amount but ... She didn't want to come here nowadays, as she says it take time and she wants to earn more she has been doing freelancing stuff. Better to encourage her and support her

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2 years ago

Awww I feel bad for her wasted efforts. That is terrible.

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2 years ago

Me too, I try to make her forgot and relax her but it is the hard work she is sad and unhappy for

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2 years ago

It's pretty understandable to be sad when people disappoints.

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2 years ago

Very true, it is... But what can we do to that person

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2 years ago

Unfortunately none apart from never again doing business with him.

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2 years ago

That kind of person is really the worst!! Seriously! She didn't ask for a down payment?

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2 years ago

She didn't because he earned her trust and she was I guess sure he won't betray

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2 years ago

I hope she learns her lesson and never trusts anyone money related online again ever.

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2 years ago

That is I guess so, she won't trust money related tasks/things anymore

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2 years ago

I just hope she doesn't trust someone to that essence again, and pray she will cope

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2 years ago

She won't, I think, trust anyone anymore like this, blindly

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2 years ago

Maybe its a high risk, high reward, blind trust comes with risk and maybe she already knew the consequence if the other party blew their contracts.

Sad for her, I was astonish by the guy who work hard and honest just to feed and compensate all the needs and wants of his family while there are others who scam other for an easy feat, thats the worst kind of human being

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2 years ago

No she didn't know....why? Because

  1. She is so simple and she trusts everyone so easily
  2. The guy earned her trust before

That is true one has been working hard to meet the households and another scam and rob....

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2 years ago

thats why life is unfair for those people who fight fair

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2 years ago

Would be grateful if you do help her in encourage her... Maybe a smaller amount of $ can be more for her... Don't mind but she is so hurt and I want to let her know the world still has good people

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2 years ago

We should not do blind trust on anyone. People are really ready to decieve us. I felt sorry after her application work her client was offline from everywhere.

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2 years ago

Yes, we shouldn't anyone. She is so unhappy and sad. She says she worked so hard and late night but in resulting she got nothing. I told her one mistake was hers, not using of freelancing platforms

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2 years ago

The guy should have just told her he wanted a free app instead of wasting her precious time

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2 years ago

He told her like the sooner she completes the more she gets and also she told he about her situation I guess. But...

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2 years ago

It is sad that something like that happen. There ir so much bad people that always try to take advantage over the needed persons.

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2 years ago

Yes there are some people. This time he is the worst one. He should have at least appreciated

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