August 19, 2022

Feelings sometimes hurt you so much. Last night, we, while taking our dinner, saw that our elder brother was a bit calm and sad. After sometimes the elder brother told us something that made us so sad and hurt, especially me.

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He has a friend, who has been work abroad. I don't know what does he do there, may be work in a company or maybe some labour work. Only I know he is not well educated, but only 10th grade.

His name is Salman, he often visits us, with his family and we also visit them sometime, when he is home. He has a very beautiful wife and three cute kids, two sons and a daughter. Elder son will be around 10, daughter 8 and younger son 5 or 6 years old. God, they are so cute and beautiful, especially his daughter. All his kids have beautiful blue eyes.

Brother was sad and upset, after a few minutes of silence, he told us that wife of Salman has been diagnosed with breast cancer. It made everyone shocked 😳. Mama surprisingly asked him, "Are you talking about Summayya?" - Summayya is name of Salman's wife. He very slowly said, yes. She further asked him, "But last time when she had visited us, she was healthy and good, even she was so happy and did say anything about her health condition". She didn't know anything, even she had been feeling good, however, sometimes she felt some pain in her breast, and now all the time fever, bother replied. Papa asked him, is it in initial stage?

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Brother couldn't say, just looked at him and with his eyes and head said NO. It was like the sky fall on us, because she is so good and a nice girl. Papa further asked him, "What about her treatment, and does she know?". Brother said, No she doesn't know, only his husband, her father and brother and we know about this. Some of results (especially two) are still in process and they can't start treatment, at this stage. The doctor says, one of the test result will show us whether the cancer spread from breast to liver or from liver to breast, and the second one will give us information whether it is reached bones or not yet.

Her husband, Salman came from abroad a few days ago, once he came to know the condition of her wife.

He asked my brother, from abroad, to send the initial results to some doctors, if he knows some, and to seek for advice.

Upon sending a few doctor told my brother, the cancer is in last stages, and she won't survive this, expect a miracle can save her.

We have been planning to visit them next weekend or maybe on Tuesday or Wednesday of next week (not upcoming), as they will be going for some initial treatment and won't be home.

How to cure her?

I am so sad for her. What makes me more sad is her three kids. They are so innocent and they not deserve to live without their mother. I am confused how to cure her for her kids. I wish I could cure somehow cure her, make her cancer go away.

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HOW TO CURE HER? This is the question that has been teasing and bothering me so much.

My Plannings

Though I heard most of the treatment will be free of cost. However, I have been planning to start some sort of call for donations campaign for her, but first I want to know if they have bank account, so everyone could send donation directly. If not then I will find some alternative.

Your Guidance

What would you suggest I should do? Should I go "Call For Donation" or NOT? because I am so confused and worried...

Confused and worried, because if I ask them for bank account and they said NO or her wife minds that or realize her condition etc.

Guide me please

I had started this article yesterday night (August 19, 2022), in order to share my feelings, but I could not complete it, due to my emotional situations, as I was feeling so hurt and sad. It was making my eyes wet due to which I could write.

Article Completed Date 
August 20, 2022

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