As a human being, we often have expectations.Expectation is that can't be controlled, when you will involve with something or someone,there definatly grow some expections.let's talk about this-

Why expectation arises

When we get involved in something we start thinking that it's all will happen in control of us.It's a pcychological matter when someone likes something, he /she feels interest in it and automatically the expectations arises there.

Where expectations arises

The expectations arises to someone or something you like. Let me explain,your expectations will be built up in the things that you start to like or you find interest on that.you can't stop growing expectation then.If you become weaker then your expectation will increase more towards that thing whether it is human or something else!

Expectations on one who you love

It is important to discuss about. We peopel fall in love with opposit gender i mean mens fall in love for womens and womens fall in love for mens. When you will talk to your partner, spend time together, share some feelings with each other. That is how the expectation will grow for each other like, your partner will expect much attention from you, your partner will want your company, will want all your attention to him/her and the same for you too.similarly you will also want him/her attention much,you will want thag person to fulfill your wants, and most all there will be a lot of expectation thag will automatically arise. This is expectations that grows day by day.In every relationship, there is expectation that grows from both sides differenly..

Expectation on other people

Other people means the people who you meet daily or very often. They can be your friends. As an example, you and your friend Travels together very often. So what yoh will expect is, you friend will call you whenever he will travel somewhere..and suppose a man works for you,then definitely you will expect some good works from the the man!

But, is expectation always have good impact?

No,the answer is no, expectation is somewhat good.but it has negative impact much.when you partner will want to spending much time with you, but you can't give time to your partner, there will me misunderstandings. When your expectation can't be fulfilled by your partner,there will be a lot of arguments, and most important thing is the bonding of each other in relationship will be affected much.

When your friends won't call you for a walk or travel somwhere as you expected he will call you,then you will start thinking bad for your friend. Because you expected that he will call you that means he Couldn't fulfill your expectation. As a result, yoh and you friend's friendship will be in danger and can ruin the friendship forever.

Important

☑️ Don't expect much from others.because it will hurt you most often.

☑️Less expectations, less bad thinkings and more peace in life.

☑️Expect from your own! Ask yourself how much you can support yourself!

☑️ Don't hurt yourself when someone doesn't coplete your expectation, think wisely and be strong enough and encourage yourself.

At the end of the day, we all are very sensitive. There are a few people who thinks positive always. But we need to be a good hearted person.. If you do good for people,they will remember you.try to put some good work and don't expect mu h from others! As i have said in my last artical, Do some good things in present and have great memories in future