Everyone Should Be Dating Exactly Like This Let’s be real, dating is exhausting. The countless days of having the same introduction conversations over and over again: “So what do you do?” “What are your hobbies?” “What’s your favorite (fill in the blank)” You meet all these people for what purpose? The chance to never hear back again is one option (“ghosted” as they say nowadays). The chance to fall in love and find your potential partner is the other option. Some dates will…
@Lass in September 2020
When They Come Back, Remember This It’ll come, that text or that phone call. You know, the one that deep in the back of your mind you’ve been wishing would light up your phone screen. The one that you’ve dreamt about, where they tell you what an awful mistake they made, how sorry they are, and how much they miss you. Yeah, that one. You’ll be busy enjoying your life, living it up. This is when it will come. This is when it always comes. But I want you to remember something.…
Things We Need To Stop Taking For Granted We have a tendency to always want more and never truly appreciate what’s right in front of us now. Today, I wanted to outline 50 things we too often take for granted, but to be honest, the list is endless. Whether it’s a beautiful house, a significant other that we love, or as simple as your favorite cup of coffee, we can always find something to be grateful for. Here are 50 things we often take for granted. 1. Good health. 2. Having…
Love Him, But Let Him Go He tells you it is the wrong time, that if you had met at a different place, another path in time, he would have been ready to love you. Instead, you met at a crossroads, a place where you both wanted something different. He tells you that you share a special connection, that you hold a piece of his heart and that he will always care about you, but he is ready to leave you and continue in his own growth separate from yours. He tells you he wants to…
Impactful Lessons I Hope You Learn In Your Twenties I think we “grow up” in our twenties. We work on becoming (and figuring out) who we want to be. And as we move through these years, we try to decipher what we value, and what and who we wish to hold close to our hearts. My twenties have been pretty rocky. They’ve had their fair share of ups and downs, rock bottoms, highs and lows, and of everything in between. But they’ve also been quite special years, filled with many…
Remember That This Will Pass While you’re in the middle of a dark night, it feels like the dawn is an impossibility when it is, in fact, an inevitability. Even when it feels endless, please remember that this will pass, in the same exact way that everything else that has temporarily cast a shadow over your life has passed. This will pass and some things will be better. Some will be worse. This will pass and the world will be different, but it is always changing. This will…
Every year, I share some lessons —and here are 33 lessons from my time 1. Sometimes the greatest form of knowledge and wisdom is forgetting what you (think) you know. In other words: what got us here, won’t get us there. Letting go is hard, yet essential to get to the next level of growth and awareness. 2. We are all on a quest back to self-love, appreciation and owning every part of ourselves. This is how simple it all really is, and I’m always reminded of this core human…
Lessons I’ve Learned About Love, Self 1. When you’re busy, slow down. Slowing down when we feel busy may sound counter-intuitive at first. Our mind wants us to believe that if we don’t keep moving, the whole world will collapse. Well, it will not. The feeling of stress and being busy is a condition of mind. We bend the perception of time and space and speed it up with the inner anxiety. The more we invest in believing that there isn’t enough time, the faster the time flies.…
Every person is my teacher Some teachers train us through pain while others through love. Yet they all have the same value for our inner growth. Every person mirrors some aspects of you so that you can see them and you can either change or embody them. Depending on whether you like the reflection you see. It’s good to observe what kinds of feelings other people invoke in us because these are the lessons we need to understand. Some people teach us to leave and say no.…
Know These 1. It’s okay to say no. Being a self-proclaimed people pleaser, I have said yes to things most of my life that I didn’t always want or believe in. Once 30 hit, it was like I had had enough. I was tired of saying ‘yes’ and decided that I was going to start saying ‘no’- even at the risk of disappointing others. The world hasn’t fallen apart since I started that, in fact, it has gotten a lot better and a lot more free. 2. You realize your worth. It’s as if, you…
My Great-Grandmother Taught Me About Falling In Love With Life A love letter to my great-grandmother and her romantic, organic hedonism. My great-grandmother taught me to romanticize life, to follow my happiness, to live for joy, to cherish both the big and small, to fully engage with the world around me. If you met my great-grandmother, you would feel this too. But you haven’t, so why does it matter? It matters because she fell in love with life; in turn, she lived it to…
The Truth About Why We Settle As I find myself wrecked and confused from the carnage of another twisted, broken relationship that should have ended long before it did, I’ve come back to the same question that I always do at the end of every failed relationship. ***Why do we continue to settle on people, relationships and moments that we know aren’t going to work?*** Sure, we see the red flags. They could be slapping us right in the face with the gusts of tornado winds as…
I Remember I remember the first day we met, it was far from love at first sight. I remember being so mad at you for messing up our first date, but I was determined to have a good night. I was going to let you by me drinks and take me to the big game. Little did I know, you would become someone that would change everything. I remember those butterflies. Those were my favorite. They scared me, but excited me all at the same time. I was so completely enamored by you, that I…
Life is like a Coffee A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life. Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups - porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to the coffee. When all…
Respect is a Two Way Street A young officer was on his round when one of the riflemen did not notice him and missed saluting him. The youngster got cheesed off and summoned the riflemen and asked him the reason for not saluting him. The riflemen innocently gave out the reason that he did not see Lieutenant. The youngster not convinced, punished the riflemen to a *thousand salutes*. The soldier immediately started saluting... Field Marshal Sam Manekshaw who was passing by…
Relationship Complication A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration. All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. A wonderful time was had by all. The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true. A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal:…
A Story By A Teacher In a class I teach for adults, I recently did the "unpardonable." I gave the class homework! The assignment was to "go to someone you love within the next week and tell them you love them. It has to be someone you have never said those words to before or at least haven't shared those words with for a long time." Now that doesn't sound like a very tough assignment, until you stop to realized that most of the men in that group were over 35 and were raised…
Stop Worrying About The Boys Who Leave Because They Always Come Back **Someone once told me that boys always come back.** Ask me three years ago whether or not I believed her. *How dumb*, I thought. *Why would they come back if they’re the ones that chose to leave?* Ask me now whether or not she was right. I’d tell you she was omniscient. In those three short years, I learned that heartache will eventually be greeted with return, and to be quite honest, that’s the most…
Appreciate Your Daddy You asked for $20 and your pops told you he'll give you in the morning before he leaves for work. This was after he has thoroughly scrutinised what you needed the money fir, all the questions he asked were already making you angry, throughout the night your dad couldn't sleep. Because he was thinking of how to give you his last $20, and in the morning, he called you into his room and gave you $18 instead of $20, you were not happy nd squeezes your face…
Friendship Friendship shouldn’t be based on how long you’ve known someone, but rather how long they’ve stood by your side. Also when you are going through a hars situation, the real friends will stay around. That's when you know who your real friends are. Fake friends believe in rumors. Real friends believe in you. you don't have to know them very long to care about them.
Don't let your partner ruin you You permit your value be decided by way of your companion I am guilty of this way of questioning. In the past, I felt like I wasn’t worth of being in a relationship with one among my ex’s. I felt the need to constantly prove I become accurate sufficient to be his companion. My emotions held on each word that got here out of her mouth. She would criticize me and I would bare her words. And whilst we in the end broke up, I turned into a mere…
When Someone Love you If someone loves you, they will understand your thoughts. He/She won't let the difference divide you. Instead, they will like your differences and not use them against you. Differences will unite you, and anything that seems strange to each other will somehow be shaped. If someone loves you, he/she will still face the storm with you. No matter how strong the wind is, they will weather the coming storm. Tough times can tear you apart, but if someone…
If they love you; they won't go If someone loves you, they will not leave. Regardless of why some people decide to end a relationship, the truth is that they don't love you enough. They may have feelings for you, but their love is not strong enough for them to want to endure. If you love deeply and deeply, it is not easy for you to leave your loved one. You are ready to sit back and maintain a relationship. When someone loves you, no matter how much you are, no matter how…
Our story Our story isn't trivial, but that's what makes it so special. Our story is a little convoluted, but this is my favorite. Our story appeared unexpectedly, but it was a miracle. I don't want another way. Before we met, before even getting to know you, I felt a little crushed inside. I told myself that it is best to do it alone until I have collected all the lost parts. But there is a small part that I hope to meet with someone who thinks my mosaic is a mosaic,…
Success in Life Can Never Be an Accident. It is the Result of Hard Work and Faith in Allah. Champions Are Not the People Who Never Fail but the People Who Never Quit.
True love True love is not perfection, but growth. And those who are worthy to live together will always remind you why they did this. Life is short and happy, but deserves true love. So don't be content with what you lack, and don't fight without knowing if such love exists. Knowing this, you should always be ready for this. If you only do one thing today, be sure to be to get true love.
Problems makes you stronger Problems make you stronger because true love never ends, even when it's hard. So, if you are in love today, or looking for love to keep doing all of this in your life, you should look for someone like this: Call for sleep so you can go to work in the morning. Not only do you stay with people who leave because you have been diagnosed with anxiety, eating disorder, or depression, but you teach them to love you and do everything. See how naked you…
Love is not always sweet Like many other jewels in life, love is always in danger because you don't know how it will end. It's no wonder that when you're alone for a long time, two things happen. Feeling defeated “We cannot find true love. Innocent perception of love and everything connected with it. You think it will always be romance, long hugs, passionate kisses, gifts and endless things. Memories of why we love people with us, or vice versa. In the middle, we're shocked…
Find your motivation within you I hope that you will never stop reminding yourself, no matter who you are, how loved and successful you are. I want you not to suppress your needs or desires because you are afraid of how people see you or how they will judge you. Hopefully others do not need this confirmation and can always be independent. Because sometimes you have to start with yourself. Before others can motivate you, you must be yourself. Sometimes you may not find the…
Don't take life too serious Now, all we can do is understand that just because those around us are encouraging us to use this time does not necessarily mean that we should start a new training program, write a novel, and start a small business. Sometimes they mean that we can relax. We were able to turn off the TV. We can find joy in fellowship with them. We able to let go. You can stop going too far. If didn't have learned something, then the world is weak, and so are we.
Life is not easy but simple Our instinct tells us that we are motionless and calm. But there is still a voice in our head that screams to remind us that we can do more and better. What if you could achieve your best results like never before? Have we ever had a full and uncompromising “crazy” time in our lives for almost everything except what we want to do? No, it's not us. “And we know that there is no such opportunity around us, and there are so many people who are at the…
Give yourself the same love as you give others. Perhaps your journey is not related to the love you are experiencing now. Perhaps your journey is now related to you. Perhaps this is the time when you must be your savior in order to be your refuge. You may have been reminded that the people who moved only brought you here and here. And you are here. Here you can relax. This is where you put all the pieces together, fix them, and restore them as you remove them. Here you love…
What if? Perhaps the most productive thing you can do right now is take a deep break. Perhaps the most productive thing you can do right now is to stop comparing your sadness to others to see if you are sad enough, scared enough, and angry enough. Perhaps the most productive thing you can do right now is enjoy the little joy that comes along during the day: coffee, friends, mediocrity, and hope. We live under constant pressure to do more, more and more. What if you have a…
Our Life Our life does not depend on how clearly and smoothly we achieve each goal, but on what we can enjoy each day. Who are we and how do we present ourselves in the simplest possible way in the simplest of moments? We are much more determined by how we make other people feel than by how we think about how they feel about us. We are much more concerned with learning what we have than thinking that we are not good until we have more. It is better if we take the time to…
Life is a Teacher Ironically, wrong plans often teach us more and show us more than plans that work right. These words even mean our understanding of how we should be in the world, that we cannot do everything except what is predetermined or we will fail and fail to understand. The truth I ask you to consider is that even though you just woke up today and are continuing to breathe, you are doing what you have to do. Even if all you have to do is concentrate on your most…
News of Death It only takes someone who brings up the topic to crack and cry silently, frozen at the moment of sadness hugging you from behind while the truth runs down the lips of people who really care about you and care for you. The same words, the same advice aimed at lifting you up and getting you out of this dark room serve as light to get you out of this dark tunnel, making you feel uncomfortable about how much it actually sounds. Suddenly you're not sure if this is…
Accept your responsibility If you are wrong, now is the time to accept that every action has a consequence and a reaction. You take the opportunity to lose your commitment. If you are innocent, then you have to take responsibility for being what you didnt. Don't think someone doesn't trust you at all. You can't grow up if you keep thinking people who don't trust you. To be honest, without trust, neither of you will have a chance
Love is beautiful, but lifelong rewards aren't enough to compromise core values. You don't want to look someone in the eye forever and expect them to find all the answers you need. Wait for the person to look in the same direction as you. It will make the world different.
Clear truth There is a clear truth about who is right for you. They will want a lifestyle like you. How do I know Because by definition this is the right reason for you. To be with someone whose eyes sparkle as your eyes get brighter, someone whose heart beats fast when they stare at you, someone who is fascinated and inspired by the same power that makes you move forward. is something that many of us have never received. We like the people we love, not the people who make…
Love Love doesn't have to be the biggest compromise in your life. I know they say differently. You watch movies, read novels, and listen to relatives and friends who have had very successful relationships. Love is a constant compromise. You can't have everything. And maybe they are right. You can't have everything. But you can get what you need. You need to be able to be with the person you love and live a life that seduces, energizes, and inspires. You must be able to…
Life Life offers us very difficult choices. What to wear in the morning. Milk or cream in our coffee. Who do we spend the rest of our lives with and what if we want something completely different from them? Of course, there are ready-made answers to these questions. High-waisted jeans. Milk is less fatty. Choose whoever you want, because love is the most important thing. When solving difficult life problems, we must follow certain rules, and they all have predetermined…
Good life Good life is not measured by what you do, but by who you are. It's not about the number of people you love, but how many people love you. It has nothing to do with how well things are going or how well the plan is being implemented. It's all about the magical items you encounter while diving off-road. It's not about what doesn't work, but about learning when it doesn't work. It is these fragments, awakenings and knowledge that make you see something more than you…
Measure of Good Life It is an indicator of a good life, when you truly feel that the sunlight shining through the sheets in the morning is divine inspiration. How to calculate that you are better than ever. How to calculate what you want to do better in the future. The number of things you've lost and what you shouldn't do anymore. How many times have you come to the end of your ability to find another sea of value after being pushed to the surface? These above are some…
Dream of tomorrow I dare to believe in tomorrow. Not because of any promises. But because there is an opportunity here. The opportunity you face is a testimony worth congratulating, but above all else, you can dare to believe it today. At this time, at this moment and in you. That your life will lead you there; You can survive just by being in it. Now I dare in your life to believe that better days are coming . At that moment, you should be brave to dream of tomorrow
Don't judge too quick Stories always has two parts. Always emphasize, not compassion. Take your stand and find out why they do what they do. Take a step back and see the big picture in front of you. Most of the time, we see things the way we want, even if that's not what our mind does. Point out that this is a very powerful technique. Even if people take it for granted. Politely. My kindness means a lot.
Be grateful You should be grateful always is always. You cannot get everything you want in life, but that is life. If you are happy with what you have, you will be happy always . There will always be someone better, richer and more attractive after they left you, therefore be grateful they left you. Get the best version of yourself, not someone else's best version. We all have our battles every day. But choose wisely. Is it worth fighting? Should your hands and knees hurt?…
Life is not fair Life is never fair.know it! Do you work hard to get what you want but you don't get it? Life is not fair and will never be fair. Working hard and hard enough can help you achieve your desired goals but it is not guarantee. At the end of the day, stick to your values and don't get discouraged. Do you believe in second chances? Try it. Do you want to be vegan? just do it. Do you want to be kind to the most inappropriate person? Do it! You are very kind. Do…
You are truly happy only when you are at peace with yourself. Don't look at anyone else to confirm. You will very often be disappointed. Create yourself. It's the same with happiness. Don't rely on anyone to be happy. You will be disappointed. Love yourself. And rest assured. Very well! Do you know how difficult it is to maintain your body fat percentage without increasing and decreasing ?! It takes effort. Eating donuts at 12 o'clock when you need to sleep is not easy. So…
Physical appearance is not everything Appearance isn't everything. I prefer someone who loves me for my personality and knowledge, not for my appearance. If you act with respect, confidence, and kindness, everything will be fine. You've seen people talk about ugly people and pretty faces, but you've never seen people talk about ugly people who look below average. As you get older, you really do realize that your looks don't matter. Your stupid pride isn't worth it. Let go of…
Adulthood is a Bitch For Several decades of years, people have looked for safety everywhere, but they found safety in themselves, and we looked for guidance in religion, spirituality, and government. In most cases, until adulthood, it is planned from birth. We learned the basics of human behavior such as walking, speaking, and right and wrong. It's time to go to school, college, graduate, and step into the real world. Until then, we are alone for the first time in our lives.…
Testing Your Feeling Learn to test your feelings. Testing your feelings does not mean that you are doing well. It doesn't end with the claim that you feelings are correct. It's gives a good idea that expanding your perspective can help when your emotions subside. This is because it can help you deal with more difficult emotions in the future. It is an art that is possible and only you can understand it because you know it. Calm down and stay consistent. Be honest with…
Dealing With Trauma Reading keeps the mind busy. So read as not to remind youself of some trauma that happen to you before. And also don't ask your friends some questions that reminds them of their trauma Checking out is a great idea. Everyone loves to be asked for and taken care of. Everyone cherishes their interests. But you can think about how you are asking. Don't remind friends of their trauma by giving details such as fear, pain, or violence. For example, don't say…
Just A Post Let's say your mindset is sticky and unchanging. Perhaps one of the most dangerous distortions is the idea that you cannot change them just because you are used to your actions and habits. This is a misconception primarily associated with a desire to maintain greater comfort and resistance than a legitimate inability. You trust your feelings more than evidence or what actually happened. You may feel like a "bad guy" just because they don't like you , but your…
Fear of Fear Underestimates the level of discomfort. The longest fear is usually the fear of fear. This is not the case when we are afraid and we are afraid of our reaction to an event until we can handle it. In doing so, we underestimate how much inconvenience we can endure, especially when there is a reason for it. People are afraid of meaningless pain, but if they believe they have a higher purpose, they are willing to endure any pain. Thus, overcoming the fear of fear…
Make assumptions about the world based on your own experience. Global labeling occurs when you use a little experience to build and guess about the world. Research shows that people who design global labels tend to stick to them even when faced with conflicting research or statistics. The fact that you do not understand something does not mean that it is not true or reality. forecast. A horoscope is when you are trying to find a "sign" that says that you need to make one or…
The voice inside you Listen to the voice inside you. It knows you better than you think. There is reason for the hidden sensation you get when whenever you are trying to make a choice. There is a reason why the voice keeps coming back again and again. There is a reason why you still feel uncomfortable with your job. There is a reason to cry to sleep at night because your job is no longer working. Sometimes there comes a point in life when what you do doesn't improve. You…
Passion Is there light at the end of the tunnel? Are you still burning your soul while holding hands or starting a new project? Passion is the fuel we all need to live. Without this, we begin to lose ourselves. We always forget everything we dreamed about. Because the main reason we want to do this is gone. What used to be a fierce fire is now just a flicker, and no matter how much you light it, you cannot light the same fire. The initial strength was not found. "Aha!" -The…
Ugly truth You will fail to understand each other and you will go crazy and reduce yourself to behaviors that will blow you away. You will treat yourself like a fool and it may take hours or even days or months before you can see clearly - before you can dig deeper into yourself and admit that you really are stupid and finally apologized. Before you can fix the feeling of loving trust that drew you to each other in the first place - what keeps you together, sometimes just…