Love Yourself, Just The Way You Are.

It's ok if you don't have a valentine on Valentine's day, people usually don't get Aids on Aids day !!

Haha Sorry to say it this way but Valentine's Day isn't about a person itself, it's about LOVE itself. You can give love to your mother, your father, your sister, your brother, your friend and even your pet..or should I say especially to your pet ?! Anyway, you get what I mean..

Happy Valentine's Day from me and the Devil to all of you

But the most important of all, is to give love to the most deserving person in this world... yourself. In the journey of life, we always seek to find someone who will give us love.. At school, our teachers, at university, our colleagues, at work, our bosses, and at home, our parents. And when we are at marriage age, we look for a partner to love us. We accept conditions we don't want or circumstances that don't suit us just to say that someone loves us. But we forget that we can offer this love ourselves. We deserve it

You stand in front of the mirror and say why doesn't this love me and why doesn't this prefer me as a close friend? I'm ugly, I'm unwanted, nobody loves me. Well if you do this now, or from time to time, then please stop. This is not true at all. On the contrary, start your day by saying completely different things. Offer love and support to yourself. Get up every morning drink water, wash your face and stand in front of the mirror. Look at yourself. here you are. You are the only one who knows what you went through, you know the moments of your weakness and collapse that you passed alone. Stand in front of the mirror and tell yourself how much you love it. Say to yourself beautiful words do not wait it from anyone else. Look at your eyes and say I am successful, I am beautiful, I am strong, I am loved, I am worthy

Yes, this is a good day to love yourself, and tomorrow is a brtter day to do so. Do not wait for your evaluation from anyone, and do not wait for someone to love you. Always tell yourself the good things and forgive yourself for all your mistakes, we are human in the end, we make mistakes and we learn. You must accept yourself as you are.

Imagine that a friend comes to you, tells you about his problem, something bad happened to him or a mistake he made, how would you act? You cannot scold him or yell at him. You'll sit next to him patting his shoulder and relieving him. You will tell him everything will be fine. Everything can be resolved. And it's okay, you're there for him. Well that's the right thing to do. So why don't you do the same to yourself when you make a mistake. Be your own friend. Don't be hard on yourself. Be compassionate and accepting of all your mistakes. No one is perfect and no one is perfect. Wack, that doesn't mean he doesn't deserve love. On the contrary, he needs love twice as much

Social media shows everything perfectly, sets standards of beauty and standards that you must meet to be beautiful or acceptable in society. This is completely wrong. It distorts the real things that matter. It doesn't matter how you look or what you wear. It doesn't matter what you own or how you act and how you spend your money. What really matters is your core. It is your humanity and your personality. Your mind and the way you think and your view of things. That's what really matters. Other than that, it is nothing but fraud and filters. You are loved for what you are and for the good and love your heart carries. You are perfect with all imperfections.

You are perfect just the way you are.

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