The thing called marriage.

Marriage is a union between a man and a woman, although some have other notion of the concept, this is my own belief. An institution where two imperfect beings agree to stay and work together for the rest of their lives. This is the only institution you get a certificate before starting because there won't be any graduation. The essence of this union is for companionship, to help each other and procreation is a blessing to this union.

This union is beyond a day celebration (wedding) or a night of intimacy. Most people think after marriage everything will become smooth and creamy, you and your partner you enjoy your lives always without interference, we forgot the pressure that may come from families and inlaws, after your wedding comes the real work. You can't enjoy always but you enjoy most times if you understand each other.

In this marriage, you will understand that your partner is actually a different being with likes dislikes and some characters that may not conform to your ideology but you have to endure and tolerate for it to work. The one-time sexy slim babe you once dated can turn to the fat haggard woman in space of years or months. That six-pack guy you once admired his aps can turn into one pot belle man, although it's not always like this, it happens sometimes and you have to accept it.

We thought having sex every day would just be fun since we've got the licence to be weird, we never imagined that we would one day we would be so tired and down that we can't even notice our partner. What seems so fun may one day turn sour that we may contemplate quitting.

We believe our partners are saint, never did we imagine the frustrations, the heartbreaks, the regrets, the hurtful words and actions that would one day come from our heartthrob intentionally or otherwise. That voice that always pet you, turning to be the voice that torture you.

What about the normal each minute's texting, the pillow talks we normally have when we were dating, hmmm 🤔all these reduce with much responsibility, we find ourselves texting list of things to buy instead of the normal sweet messages

The worst part is the only formula that works in this institution is to do what works for you because what works for A may destroy B.In everything Marriage is a good thing when you find the right partner. 

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