Expectations lead to disappointments
We all know that some aspects of our life there will be a chaos that tend to happen in life. There will be a situation that might be serve as lesson. As well as there will be someone that will lead us to realized.
And of course, It was all part of our precious life. Somehow we can felt disappointments, sorrows, hatred, and anger but then it was just a feelin.A feeling that will give us a negative motion of all.
Expectations lead us disappointments. No matter what can be, how will be as long as we've expect basically we can be felt disappointments.
Person
This is common situation that why our feelings felt disappointments. As a matter of fact, we've expect to the person we really known for so long and then acted like don't care. A person that will be our parents, friends, and loveones.
Parents. Because as far as I remember that my mom promised me that she will bought me of my favorite food but due to have an instances she forgot and I expect a lot. This is the time that I already feel how the feeling of being disappointed.
Truthfully there were no such thing as perfect parents. They can make a mistake as well by putting our own mind into a right thing. Our parents raised us for good. They will be the one serves our life into living. They raised us by giving us food to eat, shelter to make us stay and clothes that will make us warm.
Growing up in this world that we already expecting to our parents in a way of, they can provide our needs in daily life, they can give us what we want and they can spend of what are the things that we need. We already expect that they can give us a good life to live. Honestly, they are just trying their best just to meet our expectations. In some cases, we as daughter and sons to our parents we cannot avoid to make ourselves expect even sometimes will made us diappointments whuch is wrong habit for our parents instead we need to be understandable at all time with them.
Friends. I can say that I wouldn't be so much expect about them because there will be a time that they will don't care about me. I am just a friend of them who keep following what will be their side wanted to happen as well as I'm not a type of person who is very competitive when it comes about the blessings instead I will let them know of what are those blessings that I got so that they can benefited as well with all the good things happened in my life. Of course, with the good treatment established for sure there will be some scenario that they will forget how you treated them so good. Being a friend who expect that they can do the same as what you invest with them unfortunately, it will lead to disappointments because they were just good when they need you and when you need them they were nowhere.
As far as we keep trying our best to be a good friends to others still there were friends who keep wondering what will be our plan to our future. They were so good whenever our presence is there but if times we wouldn't appear, I don't know what will be the next move.
Perhaps, we can have a true friend as well. Somehow, our emotions is so much over reacting that's why it lead us hurt feelings. We expect a lot to our friends that they will be good as what we treated us.
Loveones. For sure the other scenario that our heart will crumpled again into pieces. Loveone is somewhat a crucial feeling when it comes expectation. Being a woman that full of expectation to the person we love we cannot avoid the truth that some instances will be our disappointments.
In this scenario, loveone is very important wherein God works about it. Sometimes we cannot hold of being impatient and were able to expect something from them but somehow our expecatations leads to disappountments.
P.s Supposed to be this will be published last night and I was thought it published, unfortunately, it is just in the drafts🤦🏾♀ Just a little bit tipsy😂
Happy wednesday turns to Thursday😂
We always expect even we know for sometime there is none, expectations always depends on the person who is promising us something, some are true some are not. For us not to be hurt we also need to balance our trust. The least you expect the less it hurts. Have a wonderful day sis and take care 😘