“Why Do We Overcomplicate And Overthink Success?”

Everything is just about being focus on what we want to achieve. Acronym of focus goes thus... follow one course untill you succeed.

You're doing this, you're doing that , you're not focus on the particular thing you want , and eventually you did not get the result you want in both aspect, why not leave one and place your target in just one? Just like you said.

There's is huge difference when you pull two wheel at a time, than when you pull a wheel with your two hands, the difference will be crystal clear. Being successful is not how hard you work, but how are able to use your sense, majority of people are doing like 3 to 4 jobs just to earn a living? I said woooot !!!! , It's true, and they are still poor. Success don't work that way, we are getting things too complicated for ourselves all in the name of hardwork..... We have to take it easy with ourselves, focus on one thing, that will even give us rest of mind, believe me , you'll beat the target sooner or later.

Chai @king Gozie, the ways you do manage to explain many concepts in such a very tactful way is absolutely so lovely and I'm more than well pleased with your writing skills and abilities. I've really learnt something new from you and that's by the way of how we can set that goal for ourselves with respect to the things we wish to achieve on our own. Thanks so much

These words are experience inspired posts I believe. The early point that to follow a consistent schedule takes some discipline. Otherwise, consistency would not be achieved.

To test many method and realize an applicable one is vital as well, mostly when we try something and fail, many of us get frustrated with it. We should try it again in another way. It's nice reading your posts King_Gozie.

I love this sir Gozie. Yes we do not focus the little one instead focus the process and methods how you make it develop and improve. Don't focus only what you get but how you make it productive.

Setting the goals and make it step by step. Don't distracted. No need to overthink but make it work with all your heart and have a right mindset too.

Very true. I set my goal but now I didn't achieve it, I felt disappointed. But if I'll try the first goal maybe it will not be like this. I Had a hard time to wrote a single paragraph but thanks to Grammarly I was doing to write simple sentences. But it's not enough coz the first goal I was going to do was reading and reading and don't focus to write an article. Now I'll do my first goal and not my second one because it's hard for me to make an article every day maybe 3 times a week.😅 so I don't want to have entangled my success and I don't want my failure to stop me from being better.

Nice article.☺now I understand.

We are human, we make mistakes. It is normal to set impossible goals, and then collapse for not being able to achieve them...

Sometimes we complicate ourselves with such simple things, we do not always think about setting easy goals and achieving them little by little, many times we want to reach the goal or success with a difficult challenge, but if we are not constant and it is something complex, when we do not reach our goal in the corresponding time we feel bad.

We are complicated beings, life is only one, we must learn that things can be simple. A personal example of wanting something simple is that I wanted to reach 20 followers this month, at that time I had 17 followers, now I have 23, I have completely fulfilled my goal and the month is not over yet. I feel happy and full of joy because I have met my goal for this month.

The second goal I have is to write daily in November and I have been fulfilling it, I am already half way through the month, I hope I can also meet this goal and reach my goal this month.

Let's start with simple challenges, and as we move forward let's raise the level of the challenge a little more, but not make it impossible to accomplish.

Some people are moved by what others think about them and this can be very over bearing for them, this pushing them to doing things that would make others happy and praise them and not what would make them happy, some people don't want too, but they have to live up to others expectations

There's something called process. You can't learn to read 20 pages once, you have to do it one by one

I believe, when we start don't compete with others and have an only concern with our own work then nothing can stop us. Overthinking sucks.

Yeah, that word "practice makes perfect has it"... continous practice inclusive. I'm just imagining, if God had rested on the third day of creation maybe due to tired and the creation ended there. There would not be humans. But He planned it fulfilled it worked it out for straight seven days

Sometimes we set impossible goals, you can hardly reach the goal, you feel frustration, so the goals must be achievable and if possible you can overcome them. You should also set limits, you can change your route to get there faster.

Hmm... why we overcomplicate and overthink success? I guess it's the pressure society puts on us to succeed. It could be overwhelming and burdensome for us and all that just complicates things.

Setting goals appears simple, but the most important thing is to achieve them, and I've learned that the goals must be specific, attainable, and time-bound. You will continue to waste your time if you do not set a time restriction.

We should always pay attention to what works for us instead of going all about doing different none profitable things.

Instead of us knowing what work for us and keep practicing it daily, we tend to copy other people and add it to the strategy we already set for ourselves, it will be too much for us and at the end of it, we won't get to where we supposed to get to for success.

Let's focus on our own goals and take the right step Instead of seeing another person's own for ours. Most times, it doesn't work like that.

As always your article serves as my eye-opener, it's like telling me to not stress myself out.

That's right, we shouldn't overthinking and overcomplicating things to our success, also we should stop competing to others. Just set a goal and try to accomplish it without stressing our brain.

Thanks, for this article, when I read the title I thought it was written for me. Your wise words have always served to open my mind. Today you bring the perfect words to encourage me to continue in this beautiful world of letters. Thanks again, you are the best.

In fact, it is the innate nature of human beings. Man can never take anything easily. When he thinks of any success, he thinks of the failure behind it first. We usually love to be immersed in the world of thoughts.

setting goal is one major way to achieve great results, many of us want to get excited when we see enticing things and we leave what we were doing before to move to the new one then when we see a new one we also do the same but at the end, we achieve little or no result but when we set a goal we are minded at it and achieve it. @King_Gozie this is my new acct the old one is Ebizz

Because some people are so eager to achieve what they wanted to achieve in a short period of time, some even do things in only one strike. Just like on achieving a perfect body goal, going to a gym once and doing a heavy exercise doesn't change a thing if you'll only go to gym once a week. It needs a slow exercise everyday to achieve the body goal the you desire. Because if we want to achieve something, we need to do it day by day until we see some changes and progress on everything that we do.

As humans, we sometimes do have the feekings of the fact that we can do so many things at the same time but one thing we fail to realize is the fact that such things do have a way of affecting us so much that if care is not taken, we might end up being choked while our set targets or goals might as well end in vain

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Because we are habituated to compare it with others. That's make it complicate.