Sunset
Oh my sunset..
I just want to feel your presence
How about we go anywhere we can finally?
So we can be together, you and me..
Free from all worries of this world
I really wish to wake up next to you each day, how sweet?
You know to see you smiling and winking and staring at me.
With our hands cling together and intertwined. Knowing that you are always with me and you'd never leave me.
You know I always want to be with you since the day we met
Hearing the sound of our footstep marching the beach sand.
I've belong to you from the very first day you looked at me and said, take my hand and run with me until the sun sets, till we grow old. We will run until our sun sets and done completely.
Hey my sunset let's grow old together
I will warm you up when the autumn turns to winter. Wipe away your tears on my calming shoulder.
I will be the wall and rock you lean, I want to be beside you wherever you go.
If you run, I will run too matching your strides.
Our shadows became one when we walked down the aisle and said to each other I Do!
Our sun will never set until we do, you know this is true.
You know I will run to you babe, and there's nothing that I will not do.
For now, until our forever, I will always be by your side and we ain't saying good bye to each other.
Right in our courtship, I want to live and how down with you and through it all.
You know what? My destiny is fulfilled and eternity being with you and by your side.
I love you my Sunset 🌞
Forms of PHOBIA
Phobia is synonymous with fear, but an intense fear. People with phobia experience intense fear about a situation or an object. Phobia are not regular fear coz they deal with significant distress. These people avoid phobic objects or situations and sometimes endure it with the fear.
***Phobia of Socialising***; these are the most common types of fear, because some people can fear being judged so much that they do their best to avoid specific or certain situations, like eating in front of others, people staring at them etc. Up to 3 in 30 people have this social phobia. If you don't fancy or have this abnormal feelings towards social gathering, this applies to you.
***Fear of Open Spaces (Agoraphobia);*** this is a serious anxiety disorder than can trap you in your homes or makes living normal life next to impossible. Normally there might be fear of Open places like in the public, but in the case of Agoraphobia, it a much more of complex fear. People like this avoid avoid open spaces like events.
***Fear of Heights (Acrophobia)***; majority of people are caught pants down with this, me included. Imagine going up high on a hills, roof top, that electricity pole, skydyving, mounting mast, even flying on an aircraft. Some African mothers would not even dare this with you, to them whenever car can't reach, they are not going.
***Fear of flying (Pteromerhanophobia***); with the all news surrounding air disasters, so it's quite understood for people to be fear of flying, especially the airplane crash. The high it goes and the problems associated with it are some times gory. It's funny some prefer dying a natural death than being tore apart by plane crash.
***Fear of Enclosed places (Claustrophobia)***; so many times people with this fear are say they feel like walls are closing on them, even some times the fear of flying is close to Claustrophobia because of how enclosed it is.
***Fear of Insects (Enthomophobia***); they might be small, some crawls while some bites, so it's quite understood. That's why you see many people do not like spiders and insects. But we can't do without them coz they matter and part of our food chain.
***Fear of Snakes ( Ophidiophobia);*** you do not like snakes, trust me you are not alone, I'm with you! The fear of long crawling thing and venomous is synonymous with many. But really great thing about them is that if you do not disturb them, they may not strike you.
***Fear of Dogs (Cynophobia);*** this is actually a common phobia, especially to children,sales agents infact some adults are caught too. Dogs have the sense of knowing people's fear, thus may want to brag to scare away. This can be one of the most difficult fear to conquer. I sometimes fear dog too lol.
***Fear of Storms (Astraphobia)***; actually that booming and grudging sound of a storm can send fear to your spine. The waves might be huge and sometimes less huge, but the harm it causes is the reason why most people have an iota of fear for it.
***Fear of Needles (TrypanoPhobia)***; The fear of having that sharp objects Pierce through your skin is sometimes second to none with such imaginary. But sometimes they are worth the pain, either they use it in delivering vaccines, blood transfusion, sometimes used to create or draw tattoos.
Other forms of phobias are;
Autophobia; fear of being alone
Hemophobia; fear of blood
Hydrophobia; fear of water
Zoophobia; fear of animals. Etc.
How to spot a sweet WATERMELON
Watermelon has a lot of benefits and some of the great benefits are;
√ it keeps you hydrated, it consist of 92% of water, and that means that you are consumer a fruit with a fewer calories with lots of food .
√ It prevents diabetes
√ It aids in weight loss
√ If taken regularly it prevents cardiovascular diseases.
√ It reduces dental problem
√ It fights inflammation
√ It's very good for nerve function.
Without further ado, these are tips on how to spot that sweet, watery WATERMELON.
1.
Look for "Webbing": These web-like brown spots on the watermelon means that bees touched on pollination parts of the flower many times. You know what? The more pollination, the sweeter the fruit is, great yeah?
2.
Look for the "Field Spot": The yellow spot, known as the Field Spot, is the place where the watermelon rested on the ground. Ripe watermelons always have creamy yellow or even orange yellow spots, not White. Don't forget this .
3.
Pay attention to the Size: It is better to choose neither the largest nor the smallest watermelon. Kindly select an average sized fruit. And note please; large or small, the watermelon should feel heavy for its size. I hope you get this.?
4.
Boy and Girl watermelons; Many people do not actually know that farmers differentiate watermelons by gender. For example, boys watermelon are bigger, have an elongated shape, and a watery taste. While the girl's have just a round shape and are very sweet, just like their name implies, lol
5.
Don't be in haste, Check the Tail: a dried tail indicates that the watermelon is ripe. However if the tail is green, it probably means that the watermelon was picked too early or too soon, and will was not given chance to ripe. If it was given the opportunity and patience to dry up while still laying down, the sweetness is double sure. Take note.
Reality of Life
What is life? We keep asking ourselves, yet we never find the correct answer to what life is actually. An illusion? An imaginary? A fallacy? Or a passage? The earth? Or what's in-between the earth? We wonder...
There's actually a deep meaning to what life is actually, and from my perspective;
The reality of life is like that of a man who went to the forest, while resting and wandering about finding his balance, He sees a lion, the lion looked up and think it has seen a very good meal for the day, then it started chasing him, it chased him all around till he found a hole as he was running for his dear life and safety, he jumped into the big and deep hole, hoping that would serve as an escape for him, as he jumped, he managed to hold on to a rope, so he won't fall hard or to the bear ground, so that it would be easy for him to pull out again.
Then as he clinged on to the rope, resting and taking a deep breath of safety, and thinking of the way out,he looked down and saw a serpent hissing and waiting patiently for him to fall, he was bewildered and more scared, he looked up and saw Two rats, one is white and one is black, both rat were nibbling at the rope little by little, not forgetting the lion hovering and roaring at the top waiting for him to come out and then devour him. He then looked forward to the hole wall and sees a Honey Comb, he was a little bit cheered up as he hung onto the rope, then he taste the honey comb, it was sweet till he kept on tasting it and tasting it, he kept tasting till he forgets he was holding to a rope, forgets there's a snake beneath him, forgets the two rats (black and white) nibbling at the rope, forgets the lion roaring on top of him.
That's the simplest reality of life.
The lion roaring on top of him is the Life, the two rats (black and white) nibbling at the rope denotes day and night cutting short our life everyday, the honey comb denotes the sweetness of life, the serpent below denotes the Grave... When we come to this life, we forget the purpose of our creation, the reason why we are created. we taste the life and we forgets what's chasing us, we forgets our last home which is grave and we forgets that the day and night is ticking like a clock.
What does a clock do? It counts the days of our life but we forget that and act like it doesn't matter..
Life is just like closing your eyes and opening it within few seconds, what do you do with LIFE??
Wrestling with God?
Most times when we pray and what we ask for isn't just coming forth or to reality, we get angry but little do we understand that everything happens at it's timing, you can never force things, it will surely happen when it's time.
When we pray, it's good we stay calm, have a lot of patience and hope on Him. Moreover it's not when we need something like in haste that we should pray or ask him, not that he can't do it but He want it to happen at the perfect timing for you.
Before you think of Wrestling with Your Maker, have you thought about;
Kingdom Seed; Like they say, you sow a seed and expect to reap the fruits of your labor. You cant drag things or issue with God, you have to sow a seed, and the seed is fervent prayer and thorough patience. He is a Mighty being, a Creator and the knower of All things. Go to Him, besiege Him, pray to Him and wait for His call.
Kingdom Investment; Before you think of wrestling with The Almighty, think what investment have you put forward? To get your prayer answered or your ways making through, a lot of investment has to be made, He is not a being that you can wrestle with, you have to walk according to His directives.
Kingdom Dreams; yes we dream and hope it comes to reality, but what dream are you having and how are you making preparations to make it come to reality? Before you think of wrestling with your Maker, what kind of dream are you having? Is it that kind of dream to hinder another person of being successful? Cutshorting another person's life? Becoming rich by hook or crook?. To make your prayer be answered, check within you and ask what kind of dream are you having ?
Kingdom Mystery; everything about the Almighty is mystery, so before you think of wrestling with him, do you even know His ways? How He works? In what form He makes things happen? What plans does He even has for you? How miraculous is He?. Chill everything if not all of what you asked from Him will come to reality, only if You believe and trust in His plans, He runs the World! He knows the purpose of how you were born, your target and achievement in life. The mystery behind everything below the earth and high up in even, only He know, it's a mystery only He understand. He created everything after all.
Always believe and trust in Him, He hears your prayer!
My Fears
From my perspective, fear is a mental health disorder characterized by feelings of worry, anxiety, or fear that are strong enough to interfer with ones daily activities..
Often times when I wake up, the first thing that strikes my mind is fear of so many things, what could cause it I wonder, then I sit back, ponder and wonder if it could be fear of ;
Peer Pressure, fear of criticism, fear of poverty, fear of old age, fear of failure, fear of offending others, fear of looking foolish, fear of achieving success? I seems not to fathom it. Sigh!!
The question keeps coming to my mind like a rhetoric questions, like what does my spirit perceive? Does it see the danger coming? Oh the danger that rooted some of us to an unknown destination.
Then it goes; what has dilemma caused me? To scatter the society? Or to tear the oppressing leaders apart.
Should I just let my spirit away in anguish? While the leaders merry day and night, my spirit seems to wait to rest but really, the night could not wait.
What where do I wait? To mellow swiftly or to slabber in pains?. I really yearn to tackle my pains and save my fears more questions. That question that has belittles me in grief and sorrows.
Now I see the answer to conquer my fears, believing more in the Almighty, Not expecting something until it happens, making things and plans goes the way it will go without getting griefed, loving everyone and not having any iota of hatred or jealousy, rendering help to those that needs it without expecting same in return, taking things so lightly and letting go. Most importantly, when you only The Almighty, the rest will be simple.
I have conquered my fears
Build Yourself Up
What do you think about life? As an achievement or an illusion, or a fantasy? It's actually about building yourself to be better for people around you and most importantly your number 1 fan which is yourself.
Building yourself to be better in life goes a long way, your first priority is yourself, if you don't love yourself and build yourself, who will? Build yourself so other people can emulate you and stay relevant.
Life is also about garbage in and garbage out, what ever you give in to life, exactly what you see. Be mindful of what you give in to life, because it has effect on yourself and you existence.
Ask yourself, what are you feeding yourself? How are you building yourself? What kind of knowledge are you impacting in yourself? These things goes a long way in building yourself. Take a moment, recap and replacement.
Life is about; no Inject, No result. To achieve something in life, a price has to be paid, sweat has to be emitted from your body. You have to give in something to achieve something in return, what you give is what you get.
Dont forget success doesn't jump at people, you have to work for it. To achieve success in the process of building yourself, a lot of sacrifices has to be made, you can't just wake up one day and see success knocking at your day waiting for you to grab it. To building yourself, you have to go extramile.
Ways you can adopt in building yourself;
Read relevant books. Reading books has a lot of impact in building yourself, in the way you also relate or react to people. You want a positive impact on your life, read relevant books.
Attend seminars. attending seminar broading ones knowledge, links you with people that matters. If you want to build yourself really good, attend the needed seminars.
Learn From people. This is one of the most important way of building yourself. Learn and listen to people on the basis of advice, suggestion and admonition, remember no one has an island of knowledge. Learn from the old ones,friends,families,the society at large .
Add more knowledge. Like they say, someone who fails to look for more knowledge is termed a dead person, even a dead person still look for more knowledge. If you want to build yourself really good, adding more knowledge to the ones you have already helps alot. Endeavor to add from any angle,you don't know where you might need it one day.
Think positively and Creatively. Learn to have a good thinking and always task yourself in being creative.
Study the Word of God always. This makes you have a focus and calm and give you hope in better building yourself spiritually, morally and physically.
Visualize yourself always. This speaks about how you see yourself, the same way other people see you.
Put yourself to Task always
Affirm yourself every time
Always learn not to listen to the critics, even your inner critics
Don't relent or lose focus when people reject you or your opinions, it's a way of going back to restrategise yourself
Dont forget to take care of yourself. You own yourself and whatever happens to you, you bear it alone and first.
Don't forget to always remember yourself that you can always win even at slightest chance.
Endeavour to help someone today, you may need them in the journey of your life. Life is funny and can actually bring you back to them..
You are your no.1 fan!!!! Build yourself today!!!
The mirror
No doubt We’re all familiar with mirrors—we look into them every day. But mirrors aren’t just for checking your appearance or looking for cars behind you when you’re driving. There are some crazy things mirrors can do, including keeping wormholes stable enough to travel through time. Mirrors and phantom limbs can help us learn about the brain, and mirrors can also allow us to measure the distance to the Moon. Here are the craziest things about mirrors.
True Mirrors:It’s actually a myth that a mirror reverses your image—your reflection is not flipped. What you see is the left-hand side of your face on the left of the mirror, and the right-hand side on the right, giving the illusion that your reflection is reversed. However, a non-reversing mirror, or “true mirror,” was developed. It allowed the user to see their reflection as others saw them—primarily for applying cosmetics.It’s easy to make a true mirror yourself—simply position two conventional mirrors at 90 degree angles, and look at your reflection from the join. A true mirror gives you a 3-D reflection, which moves as you do, rather than giving you the flattish image you get in an ordinary mirror. It allows you to see yourself as the world sees you. Try it if you dare
Mirror as a form of Motivation; Everyday ,every morning we wake up seeing ourselves through the mirror, and all we could see that you giving yourself either a doubt or great motivation. When you take a glance or look at the mirror each day, you see that turgid,beautiful and powerful soul standing before it and saying against all odds, I will scale through
Mirror and time travels; yes you wonder? Mirror is a reflection of you, another part of you, when you see it you see the future very near to you, you see that old you, you see that aspirations you've always yearn for.
Parent as a Mirror; Yes parents are our greatest mirror and they represent best version of us. Even the holy books confirm it to be true and true deserving. Maybe without them, we wouldn't have become what we are today, where we've gotten to today. No matter what we become, we become through them and they gave us the opportunity to see ourselves through them.
See yourself through the Mirror, there lies the great man...
Steps to Creating a BRAND for your Product.
Its of no doubt that establishing a business,a company is not as easy as people think, it takes a lot from you, your time, money and thinking. Meanwhile to make the journey a little bit smooth and easier, creating a brand goes a long way.
The steps are;
***Create a great Logo for your product;*** This is actually the first stage in creating a great brand for your product, its what entice the intended buyer, draw them close and maybe make them purchase your products. You can draft your design yourself or give it to a very outstanding graphic designer. Take time on this because even if your product name is not obvious from afar, they can predict right the name of the product.
***Write down your brand message***; This has to do with the purpose of the product you are putting out to the public. When people hear this, they literally know that kind of product they are purchasing, even without seeing it. Example of this is; "Nutirional drinks for Kings".
***Integrate your Brand;*** This has to do more with improving your brand to the public, never compromise or give false information about your product to the public.
***Create a voice for your product/company that reflects your brand;*** Your product content should be the same with what you are telling your customers that your product is actually.
***Develop a Tagline for your product;*** this has to do with one of the information your company or product carries.example are; "lower prices you can trust always" "every bite, a promise kept"
***Design a template and create a standard for your marketing materials***; we all know marketing is the bedrock of every company or product, the more you market your product, the more you are likely to get more customers. Create your niche, the best location for your markets and how to best penetrate other markets for wider sales. Don't forget the 4ps of marketing (product,place,price, promotion) get your product, find a place to produce or office,determine your price,and promote your product by way of marketing.
***Be true to your Brand***; This is the most important thing in branding your product. Whatever it is you produce or service you render, be true to it and guard your life to it, that's why and one of those reasons majority of your customers are still cling and believe in you.
***Be consistent on your brand;*** Like they say, consistent is key, its what's give a good edge of your product over other product. No consistent, no growth, you can't be doing off and on and expect a good sales or come across a good client. How would you feel if you go to buy a product and you are always skeptical if the person would be there or available to sell to you, of course you will rather take the money elsewhere.
The Three P's of Brand Plan;
A. Your Purpose; you need to ask yourself; what's the underlying purpose of your brand?. What are the brand values? What are the value propositions around that?
B. Your Potential; You need to ask yourself the aims you have for your brand?. Do you have the resources to achieve those aims or do you need to reassesses your aims
C. Your Promise; you need to ask yourself what is the promise you are making to the end user and how are you going to achieve it?. How will you make the brand purpose a reality, in light of the identified potential?
Living separate from Parents..
Parenting is actually a lifetime experience, and your job as a parent is never ending. It is a worth while journey living with parents (seperated or not), right from the cradle till when we become of age to cater for ourselves and find a better living. There were times we were scolded for doing something wrong, which we thought is right because of inexperience and naivity, but out of our childish brain and understanding, we feel its injustice.
The mother carries us in heart while father carries us in mind till lifetime, that's the beauty of parenting, of which everyone will pass through, only if you don't responsible. Daily we are watched and keep tab to, they watch as we grow to become who we are today, doing that makes them know each of our behavior which we don't realize sometimes. Fathers are saddled with the responsibility of taking care of the home finance and protecting the family, while the mother is saddled with the responsibility of taking up the home chores and looking closely after the children.
While the mother stays behind to look after the children, she carries a great responsibility dealing with the toxicity of the children, imagine scattering the room many times, giving unnnecesary headaches, making sure the room and house is tidy and ends up getting dirty, that's a great work. Now she has to inculcate the habit of cleaniness into the children, that's even a greater work. They learn from their mother.
Shaping up the character of the children, then the major role of the father comes in, though he might not be home like every time, but he has to be a good ambassador to the children, and create an iota of fear in them, so when he speaks as the man of the house, they obey without refute. Some actually uses iron hand to bring up the children, maybe coz of the way they took were brought up,while some are so lose and simple disciplining their children.
The school also has a role to play in bringing up their wards so as not to be a menace to the society. Mind you, children only have few hours to spend in school studying while the parents has the majority and quality of the time to spend with them. We can never expect their teacher to do everything.
Th children grows up amidst uncertainty and thourough discipline from both parents. Went to the university, graduated and left with the question, what's next in life. We all fall into this category after college.
We are left with the question where do we go from there, what do life has in stock for us, how do we incorporate into the society, how do we cope with life? When do we settle down and start our very own family? Sounds interesting right?
Now the next move is Separating ourselves from under the roof of Parents and going out there to live the life of our own. This gives parents a little disturb of the mind, couples with the fact remembering the process of how they brought us hope, their sacrifices, but they have no option than to give us the chance and opporunity to define our life and go outside there to display the good morals they've inculcated in us. At first it might not be easy, because you would have to start fending for yourself, catering for yourself and looking after yourself, a great job? Give kudos to you parents.
Now we've birth a new life, hoping to have a smooth sailing, but the world itself isnt an easy dwelling, so having to fight for life comes in. We continue to bask in fear of the future, know how questions, family pressure etc, but little do we understand that everything will fall in place in due time.
Now we are also saddled with A great responsibility of our own, out of parents roof.
So i'm putting it to you, how is the journey like to you? Living separately from parents?
Dear Mommy
Dear Momma,
From your favorite son, whom you never stop loving and showing it.
Forgive me, I have become wild, from people's perspective,
I have joined "the bad gangs' like what people think
I now allow women play with my hair, my bad!
See what they have done to me. 👇
They say boys with plaited hair are hoodlums, they steal palliatives and impregnate women just by touching them.
They say the spirit of God has left me, that serpent now lives in me simply because: how can Muoka's product argue the bible in church?
How can he tell us that Christianity is not the yardstick to enter heaven?
How can he say 2billion Muslims will not go to hell, that God is God for all!
How can he say even the babalawo , traditionalist and spiritualist all have the same right to enter heaven.
How can he say that Christ came for the unsaved, not the saved...
How can, how can???
Dear Momma,
I am still a good boy
I still remember the hard lessons you thought me, The undying love you have for me which is unquenchable.
I have learned to live and let live, which is one of the hard lessons I've been living with till I got out to live on my own
I have learned not to judge a book by its cover ,for like me, the exterior doesn't always define what the interior looks like.
Now, momma, on this day, I am off to look for somebody's daughter to LOML.
I love you always...
How to make Yamaritta
Check out this delish "YAMARITTA"
Its no doubt yam tuber has lot of purpose it serves, and one of the purpose is Yamaritta, I actually love this food too, especially on Sunday afternoon, giving the family a treat after long weekdays.
I recommend you try it too 😊☺😊
INGREDIENTS;
1 yam tuber
Eggs
Flour
Seasoning cubes
Vegetable oil
Pepper and salt
How to prepare?
Wash and peel your yam into slices, rinse them and put in the pot, add enough water to the yam, add salt to parboil the yam (10minutes)
When the yam is parboiled, pour it to a sieve, set the yam aside. Not that the yam should be firm, but tender (not too soft).
Break the eggs and add pepper and Maggi and salt to taste.
Then pour required flour into another bowl, add required Maggi to it.
Then dip the parboiled yam into the egg and flour prepared simultaneously (dip into the egg first, then dip it into the flour)
Then dip the Yam into the vegetable oil on the fire (keep the fire at moderate intense). You are good to go!!!
You can serve it with stew sauce or any kind (as you want it.)
Cramming OR Understanding?
So far you are a reader, you will be left with two options, just reading coz you need to pass a time or reading with a committed heart which makes you understand whatever you are reading.
This goes to the student who are left with reading quite a volumnous book, courses upon courses, while some lecturer likes it that you pour whatever its in their handout, some like it you put it down whatever you are given in the handout in your own understanding.
Some are actually good with carrying the whole thing in their head while some like it to read and understand. This has to do with their brain capacity I think, like me I don't have the capacity to cram, but I love to read and understand then put it down in my own understanding.
The effect of cramming is that once you are done carrying the whole thing in your head, once you pour, you forget instantly. While when you read to understand, even after that exam, what's stored in your brain still lingers, and may benefit you when you graduate to the labour market.
Imaging going for an interview, and you are asked about some questions based on the courses you've gone through in school, and you just cracking your brain to see if you'd still remember, that's the effect of cramming. But understanding things would make it easier for you coz all you read is stored in your brain and wont be difficult pouring it out for the interviewer.
A lot of our students now find cramming as an escape route to a course or reading for an examination. They just want to pass that exam, even if they do not understand the content of the question, once they open the question paper and sees the question and the topics they've crammed is among, they get happy, without thinking of the effect it brings after exam.
Which is very for you?
Cramming or Understanding?
Tips to Write the best Article??
Do you wonder how to best write the best article? This might give you an edge and tips to help you more.
Content Necessary to Submit an Article;
A. Introduction
B. Body of the writing
C. Conclusion.
Format of Article Writing;
A. Heading/ Title
B. Body (the main part of the article)
C. Conclusion (comprises of opinion and recommendation)
What you should look out for when writing an article?
A. The reader is identified
B. It has to get attention
C. It has to be interesting
D It has to be easy to read
E. Write a good ending.
Don't make these mistakes;
A. Use of Language
B. Don't use quote or examples
Take into consideration these steps;
A. Think of the topic you want to write your article about.
B. Always remember to use proper grammar, punctuations, and spellings.
C. Use elevated diction.
D. Describe it to your readers
E. Know what you are doing before you write an article.
F. Keep your opinion personal.
E. Keep the introduction short and to the point.
The richest place in the World - The Cemetery
The richest place in the world you wonder? Yes you dont have to wonder, the cemetery is the richest place in the world, its a place where so many unfilfiled dreams, aspirations are buried. But I hope we fulfill ours.
This is not to make you panic, frighten or make you bewildered, we just have to think ,sit and recall and maybe reorder our steps in life. Yes death is inevitable, a true calling that cannot be cheated or postponed, yet we can make our dreams come true before it grasps us and take our souls aways to the Almighty.
At first, if you are asked where the richest place is, your first instinct will be some first world countries, obviously not even New York with number of individuals with a net worth of $5 million or more, or Tokyo with a number of individuals with a net worth of $5 million or more, nor Hong Kong, Los Angeles, London, Paris, Chicago, San Francisco, etc. But a place most people do not take cognizance of, the cemetery or graves.
They are actually great believing men lying under the 6feet below the earth surface, they once determined and work towards achieving greatness with their work, innovations, silent aspirations. But were cut short of their life span, why? Coz of government policies, death from natural disaster, natural death, death from the envious ones, sickness, war, fermine,crashes etc, they couldn't fulfill their life purpose, damn!!!
We really need to address this, maybe there's a probability of achieving ours before our souls is taken away;
Never PROCRASTINATE what you ought to do today for tomorrow, this has made a lot of people lose a lot, whatever the achievement, dreams you want to make it come to reality, start it now, dont put it up for tomorrow, you do not own tomorrow, make best use of today,infact from the very day it comes to your mind.
Take care of yourself; you own yourself, dont be so careless about yourself, especially your health, where you live, the kind of people you roll with etc. Your life is yours, you have to guard it, you have a lot to achieve. Before you drive that car, check if theres any mechanic fault.
Dont overlook things that counts; there are things we see as little but can make our stated dreams shattered. Whatever you feel could be a treat to you, take it out of the way, never over look it, that has caused many people passing into transition.
This is a wake up call to take charge of your life while you still have it. Make that dream come to reality now, start the business now, keep chasing that talent. The future is yours, take it.
Different attitude of Final Year Students
The Bookwarms; These type of student ehn, they take their last exam and final year so serious to the extent they read anything readable just just to have that good grade before passing out finally.
The Slaying ones; these type of student ehn, the kind of joy and ego put together with the glaring and obvious fact that they are passing out knows no bound. They are filled with confidence and charisma. If you try to be like them, you might blame yourself.
The big boys/girls clan; these type of students ehn, knowing the fact that they are graduating anytime soon makes them feel on top of the world. They show no worries of any kind, they believe that is the kind of life they want to live after school, so they feel so high and may trample on you, with the believe they know those that matters in school.
The Fed up ones; these ones ehn, they are just tired with the school activities, they just want to anything in haste and pass out. Whatever the lecturer/teacher says may not sink well into their brain, but the feeling of just moving out of school palava is their top priority. I think I fall into this category.
The Unserious ones; these type of student ehn, they are tired of school already, maybe they do not fancy school from the beginning. They joke about lecturers, co students, even their courses. They are never moved, even if they do not have good grades.
The foodies; these type of students ehn, they will want to have a good taste of every food, both in the locals and within the school, even the ones they never for once eaten since they've been in school. They will always ask if they should visit you, maybe they feel they are not gonna have that school food experience again once they are out of school. Invite them and your stock of food is gone.
The nagging/ranting ones; these type of student are full of hatred, they are provoked with a slight argument. They are never calm or hear story or explanation, whatever they know or feel is right, roll with them and your last days in school might turn to hell.
The I will work in a Big company; this makes me laugh hard, these types are always so full of themselves, they talk like their family owns that big companies so gaining or securing that big job won't be a problem. They talk with confidence and pride too.
How to know if He's only after your Body..
Without any doubt or arguments, women are beautiful creation and are created with a soft spot, maybe without them, the world might not be a better place, enjoyable. Maybe that's why they are referred to as the salt of the World. Meanwhile they are thrown into confusion as to whether the male folks love them or just after their body which is believed to attract men first.
Are you confused and want to know, take note that a man doesn't love you if;
1. If he's chat with you is always about your body; This often happens when the man is in lust and not love, fine a man is attracted by a woman's body but shouldn't be the reason why she should be loved. Hence, if all what you man talks about is how great your body is (butt,bum,hips etc) then what's his after is what's in between your laps and not true love.
2. If He touches you or always fondle with your body; When a man fondles with your body always, there's a tendency he's only in love with you coz of what the Almighty has blessed you with, normally its fine when a man appreciates you and not just irresponsibly fondling with your body.
3. If he never talks of Marriage; he will never mention marriage with you ,even if you try to talk about how serious he is to you, he will always wave it off and cover it up with another topic, probably coz he has another lady he's truly in love it or seeing. When a man is truly in love with you, he will never cease to mention how great it will be when you both walk down the aisle, don't forget he will respect your family and try to be close to them.
4. If He nags at very less provocative issue; this is an obvious sign that shouldn't be ignore by every lady, if a man is drown in love with you, he will never hurt you or nag at you, he will always look forward to hearing your opinion about every subject. When you psyche him, he will never get angry, rather he will flow with you and turn it to jokes and you both laugh last.
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Why do ladies think kind gestures from men is to get something in return?
Hello guys,
Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?
I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.
For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.
How do you feel and react when asked that question?
Please share yours
Do ladies see themselves too broke to be in a relationship?
Do ladies sometimes consider themselves of being too broke to venture into a relationship, instead of turning it to a business venture, where they behave its their sole right for a man to take up the full responsibility.
Without further ado, we need to recap and ask ourselves, why do ladies always in need of urgent 2k naira?" Sounds funny?. Dont wonder too much, you need to ask yourself, why do ladies/women hardly celebrate their men? That one shock you? then why are most women dependent on their male folks for sustenance, why do they see relationship as a source of livelihood and means to achieve their stated dreams.
From my very own perspective, the earnings and responsibility of taking Care of the home or the relationship should not only be on the man alone, a lady should be independent and be able to help her man out in times of trouble and brokenness and not always leenching on him.
I don't seem to fathom why women never consider their self broke coz they have so much to give in return to move the relationship forward. If not every lady, see relationship or marriage as a business venture, where she can cash out whenever she can, thinking all what she needs is just fine face, butt, boobs, then all men will flock around her to pay her bills, this is a great delusion.
I always ask every lady I come across, would you love to be treated like a queen? Then behave like one. You cant have the orientation of men are suppose to and still have your life together. I ask them first, what do you have to offer me? Your boobs,fine face or butts can't bring food on my table, so what do you have to offer? If a woman doesn't have a personal hustle or livelihood, she will keep jumping from one pillar to the other, and when its done on her, she starts screaming men a bad, little did she realize she brought the message upon herself.
You want to be treated right as a lady/woman?, be a person of substance!
Ways Men can escape POVERTY
***Get the right woman;*** You have to look beyond looks, butt or how big or small the breast is. Looks are just there, but the real person is inside of her. Sometimes slay queens can be better, but I wont suggest them here because, they always have a mission and the sole mission is to aquire the amount of wealth they can. Find the one who will love you for who you are, and wouldn't shame you even when you arent performing enough as a man. The key to this is find a woman who will love you more than you love her, then your home and finances will be secured.
***Stop being lazy;*** One of the reasons why a man can stay or being broke is to be lazy about what could bring him money, one of the existence of a man is to know and be agile to acquire wealth. Whatever you find you find yourself doing, do it well and in the right manner and expect the Almighty blessings. Be agile, be strong, create many source of income and chase your dream.
***Spend less on what that does not matter;*** this is one of the menace ravaging our society today, all in the name of "I wanna be". Imagining earning very little or averagely and your expenses is 10 times your income. The secret is may be you do not need to buy that thing you know you can't use in the next few years. Know how to be prudent in nature, embrace savings, know when and how to spend.
***Hang out and keep friends that matters;*** How do you want to grow and grow riches when you don't keep friends that matters and can link you up. Just coz you havent made it yet doesnt mean you dont have the ability to roll with people that makes things happen, the kind of circle you keep matters a lot on your life, you can be an aspirin musician and have a clan of shoe menders, of coz it may take you time before you actualise your dream coz they would never understand your struggle.
***Know productive things***; be a kind that knows how to brings things alive. Learn a lot of things, without limiting yourself to just one thing, be a kind that shows result instead of ranting or complaining. Be keen enough to engage in things that will make you a better person even if you have to satisfy your today.
***Work***; Stop Spending your whole day just praying and fasting yet you know that both Quran and Bible tells you that Almighty will bless the work of your hands. Yes the blessing finds you on your way doing something,Stop using prayer as an excuse not to work. Work hard. Believe me it’s an error for your pockets to be empty and your brain to be empty too. Think!
How to make Hibiscus Drink (Zobo)
I have always loved taking this drink, right from very little age, the taste is heavenly, couple with the pepperish taste it brings. Give me this drink and you have my heart.
Enjoy this refreshing zobo drink with your loved ones today...
Ingredients;
1. cups zobo (hibiscus) leavestablespoon cloves. 2. Piece pineapple. 3. tablespoon honey. 4. pcs lime. 5. Ginger (for little pepperish taste)
**Method** https://read.cash/@KennieInspires/how-to-make-zobo-drink-nigerian-hibiscus-drink-8d7d0126#method
Wash with water, the zobo leave (hibiscus flower) to wash off dust and dirts, then Peel into pieces and cut the pineapple and ginger on ground. Then,Put the zobo in a pot and pour about few millimeters cups of water in it and then Add in the pineapple chopped and ginger and allow to boil/seamer for about 5 minutes.
Then, peel and dice the ginger and crush the cloves. Pour into the pot along with vanilla and allow to boil for about 30 minutes or less. Check in after a while to see if you need to add in more water if the water level is decreasing, depending on how concentrated (color thickness) you want it. Once your are done with that, then remove from heat, add in the honey (optional) and stir.
Once its boiled to an adequate level, bring the pot down from the stove and Leave to cool completely and then sieve out the liquid, putting out the shaft. Then, pour the zobo into a glass cup or jar and place in the refrigerator to cool for at least few hours or more if you want more chilled one.
Serve while cold and garnish with lime to spice it up. Enjoy
Sirens from an angel call DEATH
Kunle, a promising young man, set out to find a better life. The bus he boarded stopped at a bus terminal, then the thought of living and enjoying a better life came to his mind, wondering where life is taking him,couple with the fact that his family depends on him for survival.
As he was in the bus, trying to arrange very well his certificate for the stated interview, which has been due for 30min, due to the breakdown of the bus, coupled with the non challant attitude of the bus conductor which led to fracas between the conductor and the passenger. This gave him a distabilised mind. Kunle almost lost hope due to the happening, but he just needed to move ahead when the thought about the situation at home came to his mind.
He felt weighed down, saying to himself, "I am tired" why is all these happening to me?
His mind became blunt, with all where he faced, was full of no hope. Then he heard the call;
The call was so soothing to the ear, so captivating to the extent very hard to resist, in fact he was already humming to it. At first it was from afar, but now sounding too close. What sort of call is this, he wondered.
The voice beckoned on to him; come to me, I will comfort you and let me take away your sorrows. Kunle wondered how would that be possible. Those in the bus with him mocked him thinking he was running crazy, little did they know he was lost in another realm.
You don't have to fear nor get panic said the angel, I'm taking you to a beautiful abode, a place of no pain and no worries.
Hearing all that, his breath started fading, he could not breath properly anymore, kunle struggled to hold on to life, but the angel persuaded and gave him a relief, telling him not to worry, his trouble will soon be over. Kunle wondered for how long, but the angel kept telling him just few minutes more.
The angel reasured kunle left himself to the voice, the last thing kunle saw was a hand too late trying to bring him back to what he left behind...
What a life whisked away
How fast can you READ?
Right from the cradle, we've been nortured and taught how to read, varying from holy books to comic and tales. It's quite understood we start things in life by taking steps, right from knowing how to read ABC to forming letters together to form a word and from a word to sentence, upto eloquent reading.
But knowing and mastering how to read swiftly and fast without mincing words or misunderstanding, is left to us to discover.
The last time I tried how fast I can read was few months ago, I picked a book "Rich Dad, Poor Dad", I was able to complete 50pages in an 45minutes, which literally means if I proceed, I will finish the whole 266 pages in approximately 4hours, oh poor me?
Just as we would love to read and understand, taking speed into consideration also matters. When reading, you don't have other thoughts, you dont read pointing your finger from word to word, you dont read aloud, you don't move your head but only your eyes moving only.
So I have few questions for you, what's your current reading speed in wpm? How long does it take you to finish a novel of 300 pages? What are you doing to increase your speed?
My first experience on read.cash
Prior Before;
Prior Before knowing or coming across this platform, a random guy contacted me from Facebook and sent me a telegram link to earn free Bitcoin, that was what made me know about more of Crypto-currency, then I registered, but on the short run, I discovered the platform was all lies and fraudulent, then I had to pause.
Fortunate, this same guy was the one that introduce to this beautiful and elated platform, swearing and confirming it to me that it's legit. Instantly I believed him , hoping I will see a difference and grow more.
My Journey;
My first day on read.cash, I was skeptical about how to go about it, I checked every nooks and crannies of the site, leaving nothing untouched. With my ability and experience on internet and social media, I was able to understand to a far extent in a day. I saw people's article and post getting likes, views, recommendation, and at the end getting tipped with few dollars to emulate and encourage them to write more.
Behold I went back to ransack my brain if there was still those good memories and writing skills, yes! I got them and I had to find a pen and new book for my article writing journey with lots of benefits. So far I've been able to gather myself together again in writing world and building my writing skills again. Now I understand 85% of how this beautiful platform works, thanks to read.cash
My initial fear after writing so much article and posted them, I didn't get tipped, that didn't make me lose my interest because I believe I can build my writing skills again via this platform. Behold from the third day I've been seeing some tips which have become a driving force for me to crack my brain more to bring out beautiful articles, just like this. I hope to write more.
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Humanity OR Religion?
What Is Humanity and What is Religion??
The definition of humanity is the entire human race or the characteristics that belong uniquely to human beings, such as kindness, mercy and sympathy. An example of humanity is all the people in the world, treating someone with kindness
While Religion is the believing and worship of a superhuman controlling power, especially a personal God or gods.
So how do these two kinda interwoven?
There is a clear distinction between the humanity and religion and how they both affect our society and communities at large. Where religion works, humanity may not work; and where humanity works, religion may not work. Have you ever found yourself in a situation to help and the first thing you ask or inquire is to know the religion he/she practice before lending a helping hand? That's you taking religion over humanity. Lending a helping hand to anybody irrespective of race,religion,tribe,skin color,country is what makes you humane.
Both Religion and human has faith enshrined in it, thus; having or loving those who practise the same spiritual faith with you is base on Religion, while loving everyone regardless of their faith is Humanity.
You can be a; Christian, Muslim,Hindu,sikism etc, what we should all share is one faith which is Humanity. Let's make the world a better place for all, we all need each other to live.
Let's all be HUMAN
Potatoes Irish
How do you enjoy your IRISH POTATOE?
Here is an idea you might find amazing
Perfect for breakfast treat.
Ingredients:
• Potatoes (Irish)
• Green and Red proper
• Onions and Green Beans
• Ground pepper and Ginger Powder
• Carrot
• Seasoning, Salt and Thyme
• Sausage (optional)
• Vegetable Oil
Directions;
Peel your potatoes.
Cut into cubes.
Pour into a pot boiling water.
Add some salt then leave to partially boil.
When it’s lightly tender, drain with a sieve and set aside.
Get a pan, and add some oil.
Fry your sausage (if you have).
Pick out and set aside.
Leave the oil in the pan and add the potatoes.
Gently spread out (leave to crisp on one side before flipping to the other side).
When it’s lightly crispy, pour your veggies, onions, peas, carrot, red and green pepper, salt, seasoning, thyme, powdered dry pepper, ginger, fried sausage (if any).
Leave to simmer
Serve and enjoy!
Controversy on Salt and Beans..
They've always been a controversy as to when a salt should be added to beans, with the believe it has effect on its getting soft.
At what stage do you add salt to your beans when cooking?
Immediately at the beginning?
OR
In-Between at half way?
OR
When its almost done.?
Beans crucial question
At what stage do you add salt to your beans when cooking?
Immediately at the beginning?
OR
In-Between at half way?
OR
When its almost done.?
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Que Sera Sera
What actually comes to mind from the word "Que Sera Sera"?
Often times we are stressed about what to come, what's to come and our big expectations. Little did we know even without forcing things, every situation are meant to be.
Yes! Whatever is meant to be, will surely be. It's time for you to relax your mind and set it right, that's what brings calmness and the ability to forge ahead in life. Only if we don't push hard, things that are meant and divinely to be not because we don't have the ability but because we want to achieve peace.
Making the holy books as references, they've made us understand that some things are designed by the Almighty, and it's not in our power or possession to change or alter it. And we are made to believe that whatever happens to us is divine and has been predestined, giving us a sense of calmess and peace.
Whatever that's meant to be would surely be, even if you push harder.
Leave it to The Almighty and achieve peace.
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