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I had a friends who had a relationships with the same gender. I know and I hope everybody here was open minded regarding this matter. A lesbian to a girl, a gay to a boy relationships and vice versa. It happened that I got a few friends of them and saw how happy they are to be with their loved partner. So I got curious on how they handle their relationships to that far. And to the extent that I asked the girl to share with me their love story. How they met, did their parent approved their relationships? What are those challenges they faced while together and how did they overcome it. And soon and so forth.
Me : Bhe can you share to me your love story cause I want to feature in my article tonight if you permit it.
Girl : Hmmmn? You're making article?
Me : Yep!
Girl : Okay, how will we do it?
Me : Just tell me how you became lover and why you separated. And how come in the world that you found each other again after so many years of separations.
Girl : Our love story was started during our high school days hmm, that was year 1993 and we are both in our 3rd year in high school. The first one who courted me was her lesbian friend. Her friend requested her to make a love letter for me that time and she did it as her friend said.
Days passes by, she told her friend to see me (laugh), and told her that if she will got busted by me, she will try also her luck in courting me (smile). Then after few days passed her friend ( my former suitor) handed me a letter and told me that somebody wants to give it to me and then when I asked who is it she just shrugged her shoulder and replied 'Secret'. Untill One day I recieved another letter again with chocolates that makes me smiling and "kilig"(lol).
I knew from the very beginning that my suitor is a lesbian, but that's okay to me, I see nothing wrong with it. Many guys also courted me back in my highschool days but I dont like them. They keep on asking me why I like this lesbian. Why not the likes of them? But no matter what they said about my partner never worry me all I know was I am happy with her. Even my friends keep on asking why I choose this lesbian instead of a guy, I just answered them that I am happy being with her.
Our highschool life was a memorable one because there's this one time that we attended our JS prom, we just stayed there for an hour then we off gone somewhere else (laugh). My mom knew about the lesbian and she is against our relationship so we hide it to her. We just met at school to keep the relationship secret from my parents. When going home she just dropped me far from our street so that my parents especially my mom will not noticed that I am with her.
But the sad part of our relationship came when we parted ways during our 4th year in highschool before our graduation day. It's because I did not make it to her birthday party because my parents already knew our relations that's why my parents didn't allow me to join with my friends to my partners party. She got angry with me back then because she is expecting me to come and let me to meet her Dad as her girlfriend. Another thing is her lesbian friend told her that I am with somebody thats why i did not came.
There's a time also that I escaped my parents and went to the house to talk to her but she never gave me a chance to talked to. So then i presume our relationships was over(sigh) .
When I was in college and I met a guy and became my boyfriend and soon became my husband. We are blessed with kids during our marriage that unfortunately ended due to personal issues.
After 25 years of no communications with my lesbian partner a thought never came to myself that I could see her in the future days. But one time while scrolling facebook I saw her profile in my news feed. I friend requested her and luckily she replied and confirmedmy request. So that the start of everything. We exchanging hi hello's. How's life? Exchanging stories of what was happened to the passed years and many more blah blah like that (lol).
Untill we decided to be together again since I am free and she is free as well. We are old enough to decide for ourselves so I don't care anymore to what may other people say. They will criticized us all they want but it doesn't bother me no more. Our second chance to be together again was more mature and felt like the love of us for each other never gone though we parted ways for a long time. We are both happy now having this relationship and hoping that we stayed together untill the end (smiled).
Authors thought:
Maybe some smirked to this story but all I asked is who are we to judge them? Sharing here their story is to show the reality of the society we are living in. That we can co-exist. We can't blamed the person to feel love, for love is a universal feeling.
That's all for now my dearest read.cash readers. I am hoping to present to you more articles in the future days. Thank you for all the support though my time was abit hectic during this passed few days due to my work and I am not able to visit every articles pooping in my notification. But do hope that I will get back to all of you as soon as I find a spare time to do so.
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Article #29
Published: October 29,2021
Time: 1:50 PM PH
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Their stories is like my sister story. at first my parents didn't approve their love they separated forcely and my sister meet a guy and have a daughter with him but they don't get married. and for some reason they separated and my sister looked her first love na Les kya nagkita ulit sila and now they are together. and it's more than a decade now that they are together and my parents give their blessing already.☺️