If he calls you everyday and talks to you for hours. If he sends text messages every morning telling you how amazing you are. If he buys gifts for you and sends airtime at the beginning of every month. If he draws you and uses your picture as his wallpaper...Then it is safe to assume...
NOTHING
Ladies, listen to me. Stop assuming things. This is not popular opinion but this will really help you.
Contrary to what many people think or say, men know what they want. They are not babies.
If his intentions are not well communicated to you, stop making assumptions.
Some of you all already have kids (in your minds) with men who said Hi just the other day.
Many of us are imagining our futures with men who haven't communicated such to us.
Stop playing with your heart.....
If he wants to date you, let him TELL YOU. If he wants to marry you, let him TELL YOU. if he just likes you but isn't sure what to do about it, let him be honest with you. Thank him for his honesty and tell him to come back when he is certain.
I don't know about you, but I didn't come to this life to play games. I cannot understand how we don't want to be intentional about our lives, how we want to be the victims every freaking time.
We cry about having to always deal with the rubbish thrown at us, while being the ones creating the path for all these 'rubbishes' to come our way.
Take responsibility for your heart. Guard that heart baby. Stop playing victim. Stop claiming "he broke my heart" when he never told you he wanted to be with you; when all you did was assume that because he was nice to you, he wants to be with you.
We actually have the well cultured, beautiful men out here. They will be nice to you. They won't come on social media to thrash talk women. They will do all the good things. Not because they want anything but because they have been trained to respect women.
And of course, there are the unfortunate ones too...who don't want commitment but want you to think they do. The ones that want hit and run. The ones who are deliberately out to deceive you into thinking they really want something real.
How do you tell the difference? I don't know my sister, I don't know... So be discerning but guard your heart too, at all times.
Stop making assumptions. No matter how good it looks, if this boy doesn't voice his intentions, there are no intentions. Period. Train yourself that way.
Always remember, you were bought with a price, bigger than you, more than anything you can ever imagine.
You are too priceless to be the victim..
