There is a lady (someone I know). She has been in a relationship and by last December, the spouse commenced arrangements for their marriage slated for April this year. By March, the lady started noticing some habits of her fiancee that was not right. She tried to stop them but each time she raised it, the fiancee would get upset and promise to address it after the wedding. This made her Emotionally unbalanced and she called off the wedding. But she still loves this guy cos he is a good man except for those few bad things she noticed about him. The guy on the other hand was disappointed, so he became angry after having spent a lot.
This is scary, she should be careful....
Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.... "until death do us part" is not a fluke... It literally defines the entirety of your life
Also, Compatibility in marriage is highly indispensable when choosing a life partner.. In as much as you may love your partner, there are these core qualities you cant do without and some that you may manage if missing.. The lady never set out what rocks her world with men.. Because if she did, once you come deep with a man, that is when u x-ray him on those things.. weigh him to know if you can role with him or not and not allowing him to go as far as almost taking you to the alter before quiting the relationship.. Honestly it is heart breaking..
However, the man saying he will change in marriage is what I can't concur with.. If he can't adjust to suite his new wife and the new wife can't tolerate that particular attitude, to me they are not good to go.. Compartibility has levels.. The man fails to understand this from his assumed wife's point of view and that is the challenge.. For the lady to cancel the marriage, she really detest that attitude...
Any changes that didn't occur during courtship can't happen in a marriage setting