Stubborn Behaviour in Children !
Date:13/10/2022
Article No.32
Topic: Stubborn Behaviour in Children.
A child's excessive stubbornness or anger is a concern for every parent. It is important to be positive and caring towards children to avoid stubbornness or excessive anger.
Children become stubborn or overly angry mainly due to depression, fatigue, boredom and overexcitement. They are also stubborn due to environment and heredity.
Stubbornness and disobedience can be seen in many children. Many working mothers hold their professions responsible. Because of this guilt, many accept the child's unfair demands or insistence on anything. Some don't even shy away from flaunting their profession.
Children's stubbornness or habit of grabbing is nothing new. It turns out that many parents are able to get this common problem under control. Many parents do not know what to do about their child's stubbornness. Of course this is a big problem. According to experts, if the child's stubbornness is not brought under control at an early age, this problem can become bigger in the future.
Children often demand. When their obligations are fulfilled quickly, they become stubborn when there is a delay in fulfilling their obligations. Sometimes children can be stubborn even after seeing the behavior of many people around them.
Some signs of a child becoming overly stubborn or angry:
When the child gets angry for some reason, he misbehaves with everyone, especially the parent. Gets angry over simple or minor reasons and vandalizes surrounding objects.
Fights with classmates or playmates, beats them up. Other children do not want to associate with bad-tempered children. If he is very angry, he often hurts himself, etc.
What to do
Keep calm if your child ever gets angry. He will calm down or become normal by himself. If the child is angry or stubborn, hug him, caress him, take him in your arms. You will see it will work like magic and the child's anger will be reduced instantly. Listen carefully to what the child has to say. Appreciate his good work.
Besides education, religious behavior, hygiene rules are taught. Do not keep any electronic devices in the child's bedroom. Take care not to stay on the cellphone or tab for a long time. Make it a habit to say no to mobile, TV or tab while sleeping or eating. Encourage them to play regularly. Play with the child yourself, be their coach.
If the child insists on something, explain to him that it is not insistence, but asking nicely. You will see that he will be normal in a few days. Do not scold or scold the child all the time. This makes him more irritable. Don't tell anyone else about his stubbornness in front of the child.
Never shout at them. Never argue in front of them. Never slap, tease, or repeat the same words to children. Use light discipline if necessary.
Encourage good work; Reward good work. Don't compare with others. Don't push your decision all the time, don't lie to them. Discuss their problems. Fulfill good wishes. Let them know that they are very precious to you.
Don't make unnecessary mistakes. Talk to the child and create a routine for his daily activities. When he will play, when he will read, when he will learn health care rules, when he will learn religious rituals etc.
The behavior of the child should be changed. Talk to him whenever you see his stubbornness going overboard. If there is a delay in paying the dues, explain the existing problem to him.
Try to give enough time to the child. Get him into the habit of reading books, taking him for a walk, playing sports with him even apart from online media.
Children also learn a lot by watching their parents. Remember, if you yourself are stubborn and a little stubborn, it will affect your child as well. Care must be taken in this matter. Share the good deeds with him.
Do not scold, scold or criticize children if they insist. Yes, you should discipline him but don't overdo it. If you discipline the child, you will love him again. He will not sit stubbornly on this.
Discipline the child but do not overdo it. It is better to take children less to shopping malls or entertainment centers. Nowadays, children can easily forget about the advertisement in these establishments. Rather, his insistence or seriousness increases. If you take him somewhere, he will be counseled again and again.
Sometimes both the parents are working and cannot look after the child. It is very natural to feel a sense of guilt in these cases. So they brought many gifts for the baby when they returned. Better not to do that. Instead, give him as much time as possible. Praise the children when they are stubborn.
Sometimes little boys and girls become very stubborn. When they don't get what they want, they start crying. Just as a child needs to be raised with care, it is very important to take care of his mind. Children's minds are very soft. Any injury there can be detrimental for the future. So it is very important to think about what to say to the child and how to say it. Sometimes little boys and girls are eager for many things, which they cannot give immediately. Do not say 'no' directly in these cases. Any negative words can have a deep impact on children
The child should be encouraged. Children are encouraged by everyone around them. Children follow their words, behavior and everything. You can share your work and various good events with your child. It will reduce the stubbornness of the child. Remember, your child will learn his behavioral traits from the family. If everyone in the family, especially the parents, keeps their sense of behavioral moderation, so will their children. As the family is the child's first educational institution. So that's where the learning begins.
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