Most times we get busy trying to please everybody and end up pleasing no one. But, more ridiculously lose ourselves. Often, for you to please someone you have to adjust your personality, change your ideology , lower your standards, principles and even believe system.
When we live our lives trying to impress Mr A-Z we wake up one morning to realize we've become a camouflage of ourself. Because you have to align yourself to peoples demands to meet it. Isn't it funny, how some people spend time shaving their body hair just to gain acceptance, while their armpit and private hairs are pleading for mercy😄. Typical of what happens when we try to satisfy people, because we lose focus of the main things that matter.
If you think u need to please people, to validate you, then you probably need to wake up, because human beings are insatiable. Moreso, anyone that validates you because u pleased them, will not endorse you in a secret ballot system. Food for thought.. Some people will never like you, regardless how much you try. Guess what, even if they don't hate you they will still hate another so why worry🤷♀️?... ❤❤❤