You deserve better

19th Jan 2022

Hi everyone good day, what’s good ? How are you doing today ? Are you just waking up to a new day or are retiring home after a long day of work or perhaps you are just half-way into a new day. Well it’s all good. I just hope this read meets you well.

well today I am going to be writing about certain things in life that we really need to consider….

Have you ever had your friends tell you things like “guy why are you killing yourself over that job or that person you deserve better” it is the most encouraging thing a person can tell you honestly. Some friends even go as far as giving you reasons why they think you are worth more than you are settling for.

Sometimes it works and then you realize they were right ..other times it is just them making you feel better. Ultimately, I feel like realizing that we are worth much more and making the appropriate changes in respect to that realization is a personal thing.

We are quick to forget how much progress and how much we have put into developing ourself and how far we have come. Especially when we come in contact with someone or something we fancy. It is like quick-sand. The more we struggle to balance ourselves around it the more we loose ourself.

Often times it’s not our fault, we just can’t help it sometimes it is the way we are programmed. What we can help is realizing that we are worth so much more and are better-off without certain people or certain things.

Personally, I struggle with this a lot, I tend to loose myself and just forget my worth when I fancy somebody or something, and although I am working on that part of me, I don’t know I feel like there is only so little that I can do to be honest maybe it is part of who I am maybe i am wrong, maybe I need to work harder at staying in control either ways one thing is certain I always find myself.

In relationships

I saw a video once where a girl said “if my partner isn’t obsessed with me then I don’t want them”. I thought about it for a while and yeah that is what it is. I don’t want a partner who isn’t “crazy” about me. I want a person who wants to see me all the time, who gets worried when we don’t speak for a day, a person who sees me as something close to a dream , a person who is that- obsessed with me and I am sure you do too.

And this is not just for romantic relationship for friendship too. So maybe it is time to check your relationships take this as a sign to look out for these things if you don’t find any one of them then maybe you deserve better .. no Scratch that .. you actually deserve better.

For work

You might be part of film where they treat you like sh**t, your efforts are under-appreciated or they don’t pay you well. Take this as a sign to sit down and re-access yourself. Can I do better than this ? Am I selling myself short? Is this the life I want to live ? You can ask yourself so many other questions and if at the end of the day you feel like you aren’t reaching your full potential or if you feel so unappreciated please make a change. You actually deserve better my friend.

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Thank you so much you all stay safe and stay blessed.

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