Let’s plaY a game

The way I hate that bestie of a thing eh, you will think I have been heartbroken my a girl and her bestie 😆 that thing is absolutely rubbish and just doesn't make sense; why will a girl be in a relationship and have another guy as a bestfriend?

Even before this trend started, I had an argument with a girl some months back about it and I told her that it's not possible for a boy and a girl to remain besties for long without one person catching feeling, I mean what will you expect from two people who are always spending time together?

Hehe, everyone wants something in a relationship, especially when it deals with the opposite sex! But the thing is most guys would say yes just to please the girl, they might not feel that way!

This game is hilarious 😂 And people fall for it. Damn!

Bestie-ship between members of the opposite sex is like a tiger keeping an antelope as pet. One day it is very likely to eat it. Most inter-gender friendships are just what you say in your article. I have come to hate the word "bestie" with utmost passion. Knowing guys the way ao do, it will be extremely rare to find a guy who doesn't have even the most subliminal amount of Sexual interests in his female friends. That's just the nature of guys.

And the truth is that it is hard to have an opposite sex bestie that is not sexually inclined towards you.

If I'm a friend with a girl, I don't think I can have any sexual relationship with her and it's very possible to be best friends with the opposite partner, it might just be rare

I'd always clamour for people to express themselves. If you feel a certain way towards someone, let them know. What can you lose in the end?

I don't actually blame people that have their boyfriend or girlfriend's best friend because e be things these days. I used to have a bestie( I'm not sure we are still best friends, we don't talk like that again) we did everything together since year one and everyone thought we were dating but the most we've done is hug and there's nothing there. I'm just realizing how insecure my bf must have been, my own boyfriend can't have a bestie oo😂😂 with all these girls out there. People need to understand that it's not everyone they sleep with, you involve sex and spoil years of friendship. The reason why some have trust issues is because they know what they've done with other people's girlfriend or boyfriend.

This is interesting to read,it seems as from now on the first question we need to ask on a first date is "do you have a bestie of opposite s*x".

I don't actually blame guys or ladies hating their partner's best friend because e be things. I have a best friend, well I used to have( I'm not sure we are still best friends, we don't talk like that again) we did everything together since year one and everyone thought we were dating but the most we've done is hug and we don't like each other like that. I'm just realizing how insecure my bf must have been, my own boyfriend can't have a bestie oo😂😂 with all these girls out there

The problem is with the way we think in our country. It's like a Taboo for a lady to ask a guy out. And if one takes the courage to ask a guy out, she's either called names and the news will spread like wildfire just to boost the man's ego or if the guy accepts, in the long run he will take the lady for granted and even mock her for making advances in the first place.

These are the reason must ladies prefer to give signs rather than speak out. Worst case they act as besties with the hope that the guy will catch the clue someday.

Even though I might be forced to come to the same conclusion as yours, I wouldn't. God created man and woman to complement each other, and it doesn't necessarily mean as partners, it might mean friends too. But again, The minds of nowadays, yours inclusive, 🤣🤣 are just too perverse, and don't mind settling for anything, as long as it has their benefit in it.

This was so interesting! Haha Ahmm, I can say that we can seldom see bestfriends with opposite genders. Most of the time one of them was secretly inlove. During my college days I have two male bestfriends, yet both of them are not friends😂. Let's call them Mr. G and Mr T. Mr. G and I eventually became lover's but eventually broke up.after four years, now we are strangers to each other. Mr. T was really my bestfriend and what we have is like brother and sister relationship.. though people around us always thought we had a thing.

Hmm, I wouldn't allow that to happen with my partner cos I know what I have been through with my bestie even though it wasn't intimate ooo.