The Side Story of every Story

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2 years ago

February 1, 2022


I don't know how to start this article, honestly. It suddenly pop in my head while leaving a comment in @Yen's article about what happened with Ryan Bang and Yeng Constantino. I am sure most Filipinos are aware of their supposed-to-be-love-story, but because of miscommunication and self-pity their story became a history.

For those who didn't know what happen between them,especially to some users who are living abroad, let me give you a brief summary. Ryan Bang is a comedian/actor currently living here jn the Philippines but he is actually a Korean. He built his own career here in the Philippines by joining the reality Tv show which is Pinoy Big Brother (PBB). Yeng Constantino on the other hand is a singer/songwriter which is well-known from winning the Pinoy Dream Academy (PDA) a singing competition here in the Philippines.

Yeng at that time was actually established her career and well-know from her songs like Hawak kamay, Jeepney Love Story, and many more. While Ryan was only starting his career in showbiz industry.

He started courting Yeng. Sending coffees, going on dates, attending Yeng's concert, and even joining her going to their church with her family.

Like any dramas we often watch in television, there blossoming love story suddenly vanished into thin air.

In some romantic dramas, there is a poor girl who fall inlove with a handsome rich boy or its either vice versa. We got sympathize whoever is poor. Falling in love with someone who is out of league.

Self-pity. That's the often reason why in some romantic dramas with that kind of theme, end up struggling with their love story. They tend to question their self-worth. "Why I am born poor?" "We are not meant for each other 'cuz we're living in a different world." We heard those lines many times, right?

Going back to Yeng and Ryan's past.

The barrier made by miscommunication and self-pity, their story ends. One who wonder what happen and the other thought he doesn't deserved her and no hope for his love being reciprocated.

Unlike in dramas, despite their difference, love always wins. Ryan and Yeng's supposedly-love-story end up being a history to both of them.

But now that their past was being brought up in It's Showtime (a noontime variety show) all the questions and misunderstanding was clarified. Everything is fine. They are both happy with their life. But for some viewers, regret lingers.

Conclusion

Based from Yeng and Ryan's story, I conclude that communication is the most essential and important thing not only for people in a relationship but also for everybody. Communication is the only way to solve any misunderstandings. It will answer all our questions especially our "Whys".

And every story have a side story to tell.

Sometimes we are too focus on the story of the main lead nor the supporting character. On how the story ends. How things will become better to them. We forgot that each character have their own story to tell.

Like Ryan and Yeng they both have their own story to tell about what happened.

We must not assume nor conclude first about someone's story, because not all we know are the truth, there are still side of the story that needs to unfold and all we have to do is to wait and listen.

Thanks for reading!

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Napanood ko nga yan, sayang din no. Bat kasi biglang di nagparamdam ee nag conclude si Ryan. Pero gamon ata talaga, hindi sila para sa isat isa.

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2 years ago

Kala nya kasi wala syang pag-asa kaya ayun.

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2 years ago

Naks gumawa din sya hehe. Pero napaisip din ako sa comment sakin ni @boringwriter .. Sabi nya Kasi kung naging si Ryan at Yeng edi Sana Wala tayong kinakantang Ikaw hehehe.

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Tama nga naman. πŸ˜‚ Blessing in disguise ang nangyari. Talagang hindi sila para sa isa't isa.

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2 years ago

Totoo haha. Siguro talagang may mga bagay na nakatadhanang mangyari talaga.

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Tama! Kaya maniwala ka na sa Destiny. πŸ˜‚

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2 years ago

Tapos nako sa mga what ifs and if only.. tinanggap ko na kapalaran ko 🀣

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Ako naman si Destiny ang bahala😊

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2 years ago

Ayiii hihi

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Wala lang to, wag mong pansinin. πŸ˜‚

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2 years ago