Married life is a whole new world. it is indeed a huge adjustment for my husband and me, but with God’s help, we are all to get along with all the changes of life.
Here are what I have experienced, realized, and learned now that we’re married.
IT’S A REWARD.
I’m glad we reserved things before marriage. We dared not do what the couples do- mixing money, invading social account privacy, being too publicly affectionate, and everything else. Now that we’re Mr and Mrs, I am happy because those things were reserved before those things were reserved before marriage now feel rewards.
2. YOU WILL KNOW EACH OTHER MORE.
My husband and ai dated for 2 years before he popped the questions. I thouhgt i know him well then.,but each day in our married life brings new discoveries about him.
3. YOU’LL BE HANDS ON.
My family knows how lazy I am at home. But now that I’m married, there is no more mom to wash my clothes or sisters to boss around.
4. MONEY MATTERS.
When we were still dating, moneybwas never an issue. Though sometimes we didn’t have cash in hand to go on a date, we were still thankful and contented.
5. YOU’LL START TO BECOME MORE SELFLESS.
Whenever I got hurt, i used to focus on the hurt and on the flaws of whoever offended me, and promised to never do that person a favor ever again. That’s selfishness; forgetting that I can and also do hurt other people.
6. YOU’LL WANT TO BE MORE INTIMATE .
Not just physically but also emotionally and spiritually. Hubby and I met in the fellowship where we both belong. Growing up a Christian, I have always dreamed of having a godly man as a partner. So when he proposed, I said yes right away.
7. HIS PROBLEMS ARE ALSO YOURS.
When we were still dating, I usually did all the talking and he would just listen carefully and give side comments if needed. He seldom talked even if I asked him. but as we were matured together in the relationship, he eventually learned to open up. He realized he is responsible for communicating his thoughts to me so that I can understand him better. Now he opens up his struggles, his day at work, his subordinates and about
8. HE WILL BE YOUR TOP PRIORITY.
As Christians, we are very careful about what we do because we want to be a good example to people around us. One rule we made is the alord to be our top priority.
But now that we are married, I realized that so is he. He is my focus, my ministry. Yes, God is our top priority but honoring our husband is honoring the Lord as well. It gives me enormous joy whenever I serve my husband well.