Be Careful,We Can't Predict The Future.

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3 years ago

Our life has been unpredictable since the acient times. Anything can happen any moment and once it happens we can never turn back the time anymore. Once it's done, there's no turning back. It changes so fast and we can't even predict what will happen for the next seconds, minutes and hours of our life.

In a snap everything you have now can be gone after a few seconds. In a snap you can have everything you wish for. In a snap your time might stop. In a snap your life may turn to something unexpectedly. In a snap you might travel to a space where anything exist.

How mysterious life is? It's full of surprises but there are two kinds of surprises. One is a surprise that can make you very happy. The other one is a surprise that can make you very sad. It's impossible to have surprises that will olny make you happy. The balance will be disturbed if it will be like that.

Sometimes in our life we are not aware of what might happen after we execute an action. Sometimes we are not thinking twice before doing. something. What I'll tell you right now is a true story that just happened few days ago.

Last week there's a rumor going around in our purok that the daughter of our neighbor has left their house together with her husband and baby. They left their house because her father says so.

Her husband and her father got a fight(exchanged of words) due to only one reason. Her father didn't want his son-in-law to sleep with their son because he was drunk.

So he wake up the sleeping son-in-law who is drank and the son-in-law got pissed off. From that moment the fight started and her father shouted that they will leave the house if his son-in-laws attitude is like that.

Even if it's hard to accept her fathers decision, they leave their house and went to Isabela.To his husband's sister. Their parents are gone so his sister took care of him. When his sister had her family , he decided to look for a job and ended up in a farm here and became a caretaker.

He worked really hard and we all know that here. When I met him on the road when I go to the store, he smiles at me. He stayed at the farm very long. I don't know the how many years. Until he met this girl who's our neighbor. They fell inlove with each other and the girl was a college. After the girl graduated , she's pregnant at that time. They decided to get married as the parents of the girl request. The guy agreed to them with his sister and they got married.

If I'm not mistaken they've been together for one year and the baby is 7 months old.We all know here that the relationship between her father and the son-in-law was not that good. They always fight and the father always make a commotion with the son-in-law. So the situation for the son-in-law was very hard but still he respect his father-in-law.

As they leave their house last week. My tito relayed a news that Kuya jun(the son-in-law) got into an accident and dead on arrival in Isabela. My tito said that they are going to get some loam soil then accidentally got hit by a truck or something( not sure) and that cause their death. He's with the husband of his sister who also die.

I don't know the situation of his wife now but they brought him here yesterday at their house and to be mourn for 5 days as per the mayors intructions due to the pandemic.

In my opinion , if the father-in-law respected the son-in-law, they will never leave their house and that incident will never happen. It's just sad that the father let his emotions consume him and made a decision he will regret for the rest of his life. I feel sorry for the wife and the kid. The kid is only 7 months and he already lost his father.

So lesson learned there friends here in readcash. Never ever make decisions if your head is boiling up because it might end up like this one. We never know what will happen next if we will say words ,execute an action out of that anger.

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That ends my article for this day my friends and I thank you for reading this far. I hope that you get the lesson and keep in mind. Every single decision in our life can affect the whole picture. A great night to all and sweet dreams..See yah in my next articles.

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madaming bagay talaga na di natin napepredict :< ako if mainit u ko kalmado parin ako saka pangiti-ngiti nalang, ayoko magsalita

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3 years ago

That's really sad. I feel sorry for everyone affected by this. I'm sure the father has his regrets but it's too late. That's tragic really for the way things turned out to be. I just hope the family will find forgiveness, peace and let love reign over them.

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3 years ago

Hmmm, I don't really know what to say it's sad pero, what if yon na talaga ang kapalaran nha at nangyari lang nong lumipat sila. Coz you know, if it's their time already, then wala ng magagawa yon. Yon na talaga ang end game. Pero basta, pareho din naman silanh may mali. Respeto sa isa't isa, yongm ang wala sila. Sana di umiinom si son in law ee di sana walang gulo. At sana din ung tatay, ee mahinahon ang pakikipag usap. Hindi ung galit kung galit.

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3 years ago

Oo nga po ate ..eh ang sad lang kasi ung baby wala ng papa..huhu.Nakatulog na kasi ung son in law eh ..ginising pa kasi.. Wala talaga pag galit ang pinairal.

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3 years ago

Kawawa naman tsk, ano kayang reaksyong nong tatay. Baka wala manlang ano, tsk.

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3 years ago

Manhid nalang siya ah kung walang man lang reaksiyon..po.. hindi rin po kasi maganda trato nila kay kuya jun noon eh di nila alam eh may kaya pala ung kapatid niya..sabi ni tito ko.

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3 years ago

Ouch, this is painful. As for the record life is really unpredictable we don't know what will happened next minute. I envy the child for being innocent yet no father will roam around.. God bless the soul.

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3 years ago

So sad for the baby.. better be careful for what we execute talaga..

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3 years ago

I also have my opinion of what you have just related and I say that this would not have happened if the son-in-law had not drunk liquor and arrived drunk at his in-laws' house. It was disrespectful to his in-laws and his wife. In this situation the son-in-law himself brought his fate upon himself. We must respect others if we want to be respected. Now it is up to everyone to take responsibility and not to blame each other for anything. No one is to blame for anything. Only what has to happen happens.

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3 years ago

..No one is to blame for they have both lapses.. I forgot to mention that the father in law was also drunk..at that time....What happened had happened already and it's up to them on how they gonna take it..I'm just sad for the baby..

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3 years ago

We can't blame them both The father and the son-in-law. Like what the others said in the comments, we cannot really predict what will happened. For me, they both have the same mistake and the father did not know that this will happen too so we should not blame him for that. pero siguro nangyari din yon as a lesson na din siguro ng matanda kasi everything happens for a reason minsan sa buhay natin may mga taong darating hindi pang habang buhay kundi para matuto tayo. 🥲 Nakakasad lang na nangyare yan kawawa si baby.

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3 years ago

Kaya nga po kawawa si baby.. lalaking wlang ama..Siguro kapalaran na talaga niya yun ...sabi mo nga po lahat ng bagay dito sa mundo nangyayari kasi may dahilan..

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3 years ago

We really can't predict how long we exist in this world. For me, there's no one to blame between the two of them. (Not referring to the accident) The two parties between the father and the son in law, because they both did some mistakes.

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3 years ago

That's right .They have both lapses..for I forgot to mention that the father in law was also drunk that time..let's just be ready and accept it.

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3 years ago

Oww, I'm sad for the wife and their less than a year old baby. What would happen to them after the tragedy?

Anyhow, for me the death of the son-in-law is not to be blamed on the father-in-law. Death is inevitable and maybe just maybe that's how God planned out his life to end.

I'm sure the father-in-law felt a pang of regret after he learned that his son-in-law died.

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3 years ago

They will live together with her parents.... Maybe it was his fatee...Death is part of our life as you said...

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3 years ago

True, if your emotions are up, let it slide down. You cannot think normally when you are super angry. Also do not decide if you are overwhelming with happiness as it might turn to regret.

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3 years ago

The outcome of deciding when angry will not be good.. We all know that ..so better be careful not to decide when we are boiling

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3 years ago

Speaking mean when you are angry will led you to regret later. So better cool down the anger first before saying anything. Sorry to hear about the accident.

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3 years ago

Yup..there's no benefit of getting angry then making such decisions ouf of the blue..

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3 years ago

Tama, ang bibig kc mas mabilis magsalita at pag nasa peak tau ng anger e parang bomb yan.. Taz tsaka natin pag sisisihan.. Its best to control our anger and try some anger management.

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3 years ago

Minsan po kasi bibig din natin ang gumagawa ng kapahamakan.. mitsa kumbaga po..simula ng lahat..

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3 years ago

Korek, jan pa napapaaway lalo sa mga sagutan😔

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3 years ago

Oo nga po..Goodmorning po😁

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3 years ago

Never decide or utter any word when you are in the peak of your emotions. Because two will only happen. You are gonna hurt someone or you'll be in trouble. I am sorry for what happened.

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3 years ago

We can't take it back..so better be careful.

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3 years ago

Oh my! It saddened me to hear everything especially the death of your tito. It is true, don't make decision if you're mad or something because you will just end up regretting it.

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3 years ago

Right.dapat magpacool down muna..

we are not blood related..kapitbahay lang talaga namin na mabait.

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3 years ago