Good morning friends, how are you doing today? I trust that you had a good night rest. I also hope you enjoy your weekend also. I know I'm not the only one with loads of work to do today.
Yesterday's article was all about peace. In the article yesterday, I emphasized on the importance of peace individually, in the family, in the society, country and at large the world.
I wrote that peace first starts with you, and that it is only if you're at peace with yourself will you be able to enforce peace into your home. I also wrote about how peace in the home affects the emotional life of the children. I stated in the article that your children will only express what they've seen within the four walls of the home. This makes peace an utmost requirement whichust never be overlooked in a family.
We sure know that it's people that make up the society and this people came from a family. Who these people are in the society is dependent on how and what they've learnt form their individual families. With this understanding, we can see now that the concept of peace must be practiced if we hope for a better future.
The people that make up a family which is the father and mother are both different individuals with different preferences, habits, temperament and disposition. I'm sure you that there'll be times when there'll be misunderstanding and clash of interests. How can peace still be expressed during situations like this? How can peace be achieved when the atmosphere is tense?
This will be the subject of our discussion today, but before that, I'll like to thank some special people.
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Back to the questions asked previously, How can peace be achieved when the atmosphere is tense?
Have you seen or witness where two people are involved in an argument which resulted in them being apart for some time? Or even when two people living together are unhappy with themselves, so they just keep to themselves, they prefer not to talk about it. They're waiting for the first person to apologize and this cycle keeps going on for as long as they allow it.
You know, when two people argue, they both have different aims or perspective on the issue affected. It takes someone with good emotional intelligence to understand that one person needs to step down for the other to have his/her way. I believe that if you claim to be the mature one, then you'll allow the other person have his/her way. Arguments no matter how little they seem can cause separation. I've heard of how people keep misunderstandings because of little individual differences which could have been resolved if one of them was mature enough to overlook.
Another one again is when the atmosphere is tense, that is one of the parties is angry, it'll be unwise for the other party to increase the infuriation by speaking abusive or degrading words because this can cause the unthinkable to happen.
In situations where one party is angry or tensed, it's best that you find good and soothing words in order to ease the tension, and if you have no words to speak at that moment, it's best that you keep quiet instead of causing more problems instead of solving.
I think this is all for today, I hope you've got value from this. Have a nice day. Don't forget to learn the art of speaking nice words at all times.
I think I've learnt one or two from this and my take is that, two wrongs don't make a right... When I get involved in tan argument and the other party is so furious and getting angry, the smartest thing to do is to step down no matter how sure you are about the fact you have with you