One lunch time I was able to listen a discussion on the radio. They are talking about the language of love. I was curious about it and was interested listen. I listen very well and have notes what had been discussed.
I just want to share this to you as my very FIRST ARTICLE. I don't have enough idea how to do this here but I hope I am doing it right.
I will share to you the 5 languages of love. When we say language, we use it as a way of communicating, right? So, do love needs communication.
First, WORD OF APPRECIATION. All of us I think need this kind of language. We need to be appreciated by someone we love, by our parents, by our siblings or any people around us. I love you, you look so beautiful, you look so handsome, you're doing great and many to mention are some of the words of appreciation. But upon saying this make it sure it comes from the heart and you really mean it. If your husband or wife utter a word of appreciation time to time it means that he/she feels being loved when appreciated. So learn to appreciate him/her.
Second, QUALITY TIME . For me this is one I really need. Quality time is a time that is being spent together as husband and wife, group of friends or as a whole family. A family who jog/walk together is having a quality time. A friends who do picnic is having a quality time. Travel, hiking, playing ball games, indoor and outdoor games, word games are also a form of quality time. Simple time together as long as you have given special time for a particular person is considered as a quality time. This is very important to the family. Most kids in these time really wants this kind because most parents are so busy and sometimes they don't have enough time for the kids.
Third, PHYSICAL LANGUAGE. It is said that action speaks louder than words. In this type a particular person shows his love by actions. Hugging, kissing is a form of showing love to someone. On friends, a simple tapping on the shoulder is also a form of care.
Fourth, ACT OF SERVICE. This language is more focused on serving your loved ones. To husband you can show your love by cooking early in the morning and prepare his lunch bag. You can also offer a massage on the evening. To wives, husband can show his love by helping her wife on doing house chores like doing the laundry, washing the dishes and even helping in taking care of the baby/kids. Cooking for food, combing one's hair and helping in different ways is a way of showing love through the act of service.
Lastly, RECEIVING OF GIFTS. There are people who loves giving gifts and for sure they will love too receive one too. Some shows their love by giving their special gifts to their special someone. Childrens are commonly feels love from their parents if they have given some gifts.
That was the five language of love. I hope you enjoy reading and learn something from my very first article.
I really hope to write some more soon. God bless everyone.
Love,
JenThoughts💞
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