Gaining trust is not easy
#Blog 213
"An old friend that never forget me" the first words I utter just yesterday...
Bisaya dialect, I'll translate it first...
Eddie: Good pm ate Jean. Ate have something for you
Me: Halu, what's that?
Eddie: Good pm ate Jean. Did ate Joy chat you?
Me: don't have. Is she in Cebu Ed?
Eddie: yes te, I've been there at Cebu then she had something for you.
Me: Toinks! Nothings arrived here. LBC?
Eddie: hehehe I have it te, I'll dropped it to you.
What can you feel if you can read this kind of messages via Facebook messenger?
I'm totally shocked. Then I checked first his profile coz he changed his name lol. Don't want to reply if I don't know exactly who is it. Upon checking it and it's Eddie, the brother of Joy. My friend been married to a white guy, living at England but she had a house at Cebu City.
Apparently she's not active at Facebook coz she don't want to explore her private life when it comes to family. We know the marites out there especially at Facebook. She's a classmate of my elder sister Josephine but we've been closed that time. I told you that even my siblings friends became my friends also lol.
Joy always visit my elder sister her at our house. Then everytime my sister is busy with her studies as a caregiver I'm the one entertain to Joy, ginawa ako tga entertain ni ate hahaha.
Until she shared about her private problems about her family and to her friends that fool her many times. She's a good chatter at online dating apps. Then everytime she had a blessings. She really share it, especially to us with my elder sister. Some of her classmates borrowed a huge amount of money but forgotten to pay. What heck right? Nagka amnesia agad.
She learned a lot of being good to others but in return they just fool her. Bad attitude isn't it? Then after few years she's been married to a white guy, who had a good heart. Ready to protect her and to accept of who she is.
She had a 1 son already. During her highschool days. Unexpected pregnancy. She suffered a lot of problems that time. Lots of people really judged her of being a slut. As what people said! Judgemental people is everywhere. But she's been a fighter despite of that. His son really needs her.
We don't have a right to call a people like that coz they don't know her story. Joy also don't mind their business. It's not her attitude also of being a judgmental.
Wayback 2019. The last vacation of Joy. She had a pasalubong at me that time. A statue of Sto. Niño, chocolates,some clothes for us and otap my favorite at Cebu City products. The shamrock.
She just surprised me at she said "Charan Jeangray". Hey packed up your things and we will go to beach as in now na. I never expect that she will surprised me coz she never told me. Then all of the sudden we will go to beach, in the spot agad hahaha.
Are you familiar with X-Men? The character of Jeangray, she loves me to call that name. My friend is quite crazy hahaha.
As I remember I have an article of her. So I'm checking it to my drafts. Gotcha I've seen this link: harip white sand beach. You can check it out how nice the harip beach. I'm with her family. The only guest along with my 2 sons, charmos ginamos!
Closing remarks:
Having a great friends is totally a blessings for me. That they make me happy once they still remember me. Gaining trust is not easy. Good friends are hard to find. Sometimes the people who are thousand miles from you is the one can make you feel better rather than people right beside you.
Thank you my dearest friend!
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May 4,2022
12:27 noon time
Wednesday
Philippines
The fighter mom,
past events prove that you can rise up and continue to take responsibility even if you have to suffer from pressure.