How to know if a man is serious about you?

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3 years ago

There are different kinds of a man's seriousness towards a woman: serious enough to break your heart which is kinda sad, serious enough to take you forgranted which is somewhat hurtful, serious enough to make you fall in love (hey! If they will make you fall in love it doesn't always mean they really love you, sometimes they just make you hope for nothing), and serious enough to love you (this is what every woman dreamed of).

In this article, we will be talking about how to know if a man is serious about you in terms of loving you.

"I love you" are words spoken by almost everyone but not understood enough nor taken responsibility of when spoken out. Here are some of the guidelines to see if a man is serious when he told you he loves you.

  1. A man is serious in loving you when he understands you even in your doubting moments. He never let you feel less of a woman.

  2. A man is serious in loving you when he respects you not just as a person but as a woman. He treated you the way he wants to be treated; if he thinks you're his other half, he would not disrespect you because you are part of his.

  3. A man is serious in loving you when he take care of you without expecting you to do the same. He will not let danger to come across you, he will always keep you away from danger.

  4. A man is serious in loving you when he is committed to you even before you commit for him. He is decided to commit even before you agreed for any commitment.

  5. A man is serious in loving you when he doesn't need a test if you will be a good mother to his children or not, he loves you when he sees your flaws but still choose you.

It is said that even if there are millions of reason to leave someone you love but because you love them, you will always find one reason to stay for them and love itself is enough for it.

Love is not just a language of the heart but also an action of art. So when you want to love someone, do not just feel it. Show it and be decided that even if pain will come and trials will shake you, then let love bound you a thousand times.

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Thanks for this write up

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2 years ago

There is a huge difference between being in love (which some people easily are), loving someone (love needs to grow which takes time).

I doubt many men are seriously on the hunt to break hearts. No one is. Perhaps relationships are too fast taking seriously with the result people start being demanding and there's no room left for relaxing, being yourself and fun?

Being seriously in love is not good enough to be together and no reason to test someone or talk about children. You need to seriously love someone which is a huge difference. Love stands for good and bad times, I would say mainly disappointments and bad, hard times during years of spending together (count on 40-60 years). 💕🍀

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3 years ago

Yeah, I stand with your point. Love is crucial but essential.

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