16th of August 2021
In a relationship, there are lots of things that you will discover to your partner and so does your partner to you as well. You will discover on how your partner treats you and how does he/she shows their love to you and of course your partner too discovers how you are as their lover.
I've read the latest article of my best friend here in read.cash, the richest among us in BCH BEAUTIES haha. Richest because of her bch accumulated. Right gurl? @Zhyne06
Anyways so much for that. Her article was actually about answering again some questions on how is she as a partner. Now, I'm also sharing my own thoughts on some questions about how am I as a partner.
For all taken, you can also write your own version of this as well.
Here's the link of where I get the questions.
Now, let's start.
How kind are you?
Well, my partner always says that I am too kind to him especially if I'm not mad. I'm quite saintly if I'm not mad. Because if I am, I'm totally the opposite. Haha
How do show love?
I'm not that showy type of person. When I love someone I just wanted them to feel it in a way where I care for them. Just like when my partner sweats a lot, I just told him to change clothes immediately. When he felt some back pains, then I'll massage his back. Things like that. Because I'm a caring person. So when I care someone that means I also shows them my love. But of course a different kind of love in a different person. To my partner, of course it's somehow an intimate love.
But my partner is different. He cares for me as well. But the way he shows his love to me is different from mine. What he did is that he always hugs me, kissed me there's no such day that passed that he doesn't kiss me. Mostly he kissed me in the forehead. Then when we eat, in the middle of eating he just call my name and I always he will say something different but he will just say "I love you" to me. In other words, he always makes butterflies in my stomach. Haha (palagi niya akong pinapakilig)
Do you avoid confrontation?
If I felt that it's nothing important and it's just a waste of time for me. Then, I will not confront on that to him. But, if I think I really need to confront such thing then I will. But good thing, everytime there's confrontation he then explained what it is. But so far, we don't have such big confrontations or a big issue.
How ambitious are you?
We all have ambitions in life. But for me, all my ambitions were not for me but for my family and of course to my own little family. For my son.
I remembered my partner told me that his lucky that I'm not ambitious. What he means is that, I'm not a type of partner that will asked him to buy things for me. Like I want this and that you should buy me that one. Because I'm not into material things as well. Good thing also my partner is same as me when it comes to being ambitious.
We both now have the same ambition amd that is of course to have our own house because we already have a home.
Do you think you can change a partner?
This one is a big NO. I can't change my partner for who he is. Because he can only change for himself.
Shall I say, I bumped into a man that isn't my ideal man. I said to myself that I don't like a man that has vices. But I don't know why I said yes to a man that has vices. My partner smokes and I saw him smoking before he courted me but still I said yes to him. I don't know why. Maybe because I thought I can change him. When were together, I told him everything that I hate or I told him that I don't like a man who smokes. Then he told he will stop it for me. But of course it's not easy for him. So I just told to him to lessen smoking and he did. Told him that everytime he smokes he can't go near me because I hate it's smell.and he does that. But I was so happy that it's already been a year that he quitted smoking already. He even gave me before his wallet so that he can't buy a cigarette. Up until he quitted because he also don't want to see our kid that his smoking and he don't like our kid will smoke as well. So that really urged him to quit. And yes his not smoking for a year already. I'm just happy he don't have vices now.
So, that was all for now. There were still lots of questions. But let's see if I can still make another article for that.
That's all everyone. Happy reading!
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True. You can't change a man because the right man will change himself for you even without you asking