Don't waste your time with explanations

Hi everyone! I hope you all are having a good day. Always woke up with smile, because new opportunities are waiting for you, all you need to utilize them in good way. Today I come up with a topic which really needs to be discussed. Mostly we go for toxic relationships, which are not meant for us and in return we only degrade ourselves for no reason. So it's better to leave it on time.

So let's move towards it.

Don't give explanations to prove yourself good, because people will only understand what they have in their mind. By doing this you would only degrade ourselves. Our Creator knows better whether we are good or bad, so we don't need to tell people. Always do good and think good, because the reward is in the hands of our Lord.


I have often seen some people worry about what people will say? Let people say, what they say, only do, what you want. That's the secret of happy life.


Once, I read a story of father and his son of ancient times, they both were going to another city with riding animal. The father was sitting on the animal, and his son was walking beside him. A man was passing there, he saw the both of them, and give his remark,

"O Man, how selfish you are, your son is walking beside you, and you yourself is having a riding animal." Which kind of father you are?

The man feel embarrassed, and come down from the animal, he asked his son to sit on the animal. Then they both started their journey again. This time another man was passing there, he also gives a critical remark,

"How errant and disobedient you are, your father is walking beside you, and you are having a conveyance animal to ease you."

The son also felt embarrassed, so he come down, and they both decided to walk with animal because no one was enduring their riding. So they started again, but this time they both were walking beside the riding animal. Suddenly another passer give his own remark. He said,

"How fool you both are, you are having a riding animal, but still you both are walking beside him. I think you are out of mind to utilize this ability to ride on him."

See? No one was happy in every condition, they tried hard to satisfied everyone, but every time they received severe and critical remarks. No one was happy with what they did, and find another reason to criticized them.

This is all I want to say that no matter what we do, but still others will criticize us for one or two reasons. They will never let us live in a way we want, so instead of taking their remarks serious and in return offering explanations, we should try to ignore them.


This thing mostly happen in relationships, sometimes we try to satisfy our partner to every possible extent, but still they would find out some reason to let you down which is not right. You are also human being, and deserve equal importance. If someone truly loves you, he will accept you in every situation, otherwise he/she will find a single reason to leave you. So it's better to move somewhere else, and stop making excuses for the relationships which are not good for you. Your happiness comes first so stop changing yourself to make others satisfied, and leave what you're not ok with or the thing which weights you down. Keep your circle limited because their efforts will reveal if they truly care for you.


Thanks for reading.


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