Choose your partner wisely

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2 years ago

Hi everyone! I hope you all are doing great. Today, when I woke up, the weather was pleasant, as clouds were lightly spreading on the whole sky, and plants and trees were swaying happily. After watering the plants in my garden, I captured this shot, in which you can clearly see that how all the natural objects are together to create the worthwhile view. Isn't that enough to relieve us from all the stress. Definitely! It is, just make a little time from your busy schedule to praise the beauty of the universe.

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Anyway, after spending good time with nature, I finished households, and went to my sister with my mom. Actually she was suffering from fever for so many days, so we went to help her in doing her laundry. We asked her to visit doctor, because before she couldn't go to doctor due to the rainy weather, so was taking medicines at home, but all was in vain. So finally, today she visited him, and now she's better.


While I was doing laundry at her home, one of the lady from her neighbors came to see her, as someone informed her about my sister's illness, so she came to ask her about her health. While having gossips with my mom, the lady told the story of her daughter who was married few years ago, but she's not happy in her home.

I can see pain in her eyes, as she started crying while she spoke about her daughter. Actually her daughter was married in their relatives, and it was totally arranged marriage. Her in-laws are used to behave badly with her since the day one. They never treated her like their own daughter, and always blamed him for the things which she never did.

Her husband is an alcoholic person, who is used to beating his wife every day, but now he has crossed his every limit, as now he has blamed her for infidelity. Although everyone in their acquaintance knows how pure and simple she is, but he is blaming her to save himself. She had three children, and now he has decided to divorce her in few days. How he could be so heartless? He even didn't think about his children, or how she would be able to raise the three of them alone.

She needs her husband's support and aid, but he is not ready to accept this responsibility. I was sad to hear this, how could he do this after carrying three children with her. He doesn't even deserve to be called a father.

That's why it's always said that the decision of marriage should be taken carefully, because it's the matter of whole life. The fault of the girl's parents is that, they haven't investigated carefully about him before handling their daughter to him. Now his real face has come in front of everyone, but nothing could be done, as he has decided to divorced her.

But now they have decided to visit court to demand justice, the father of children should take the responsibility to provide something for his children every month, because she can't afford to provide her children's need as a single parent.

My message is that, everyone should choose their life partner carefully, because it is not the matter of one day, but your entire life depends on it, and your one wrong decision can destroy your whole life. The ones who are already married should support each other, and think for a while about their children before taking such decision.

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This is a great topic to learn from. Choosing a life partner is a very important thing an individual should do with all amount of seriousness and care because it's a decision that you will have to live with for life. Take time to talk to the person and see if you two agrees to each other.

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2 years ago

We cant determine if our partner will be okay or not until we live on the same roof with them.

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Our partner is our lifetime investment, which means that failing to marry the right person will make you miserable and as well your children. Choosing a spouse isn't an easy thinhs to do. That's why, we should always ask guidance from the creator.

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2 years ago

I like the story, but I like the sad story very badly. Of course we should think before choosing a life partner. Big lesson it is.

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2 years ago

I am very sad to the end of this. What a pity.

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2 years ago

Why the girl didn't speak and it's all happened because the girl is not financially independent

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2 years ago

Alcoholic husband always danger. My uncle was alcoholic. Now he is a street begger. Gonna write an article about this topic

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2 years ago

Sad in the end.

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2 years ago

I feel sorry for the lady's daughter😭 it isn't easy living with a partner who put his hands on his wife😭 sometimes, we have to choose peace over everything. Hopefully she can make a better decision.

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2 years ago