Hi everyone! I hope you all are doing well. Few days ago, I heard a loud noise of a lady, she was cursing our neighbors for something. Her behavior was very rude, and she was not in mood to hear anything, so after 10 minutes, she left. When my mother asked our neighbors for the reason, they said she is blaming us to instigate her husband to fight with her.
But, In the morning she came again to ask an apology for her bad behavior. She confessed that, it was just a misunderstanding, and she was in stress to utter such inappropriate words. she was ashamed for her behavior, that day. That's why its always said, think before you speak.
Are you think just for one second before saying anything?
Sometimes we are in rage, and utter such hard words that are so hard for someone, that we can't realize. Just remember, our anger will pass, but the intensity of our words will stay the same. We will never be able to replace our words, because people may forget what you said, but will never forget the pain they felt at that moment.
Always try to ever be good with people no matter if someone is watching you or not. Sometimes a little act of kindness can the biggest one if it is done sincerely.
Never let your emotions hold on your goodness, always be active to know if someone needs your help or not. Don't let your anger steal your sweetness and positive side. Avoid being the cause of other's distress, because they may not complain, but their silence and sighs of sorrow can ruin your life. Because Almighty is the listener of unsaid words and greatest judge. So, If you can't speak good, stay quiet. Never heart anyone, but if you did than say you're sorry.That's the real secret to live a peaceful life.
Ways to make others happy
Keep smiling
A smile is a universal language of kindness. It is a gift we can give to anyone easily. Although it's just a minor movement of speech organs, but this positive movement can have a power to mend the broken hearts. It proves to be a bringer of peace in the midst of distress and hardships. Sometimes you seem to be on the verge of losing hope, but just a single smile can give you a never ending power and hope to face your circumstances. Your opponents can be shattered with just your smile.!
Words of sympathy
You may spoke some words of kindness in their difficult time, but sometimes even these words can have impact to change their mood, and entire day. In your daily life, try to know the hardships of people around you, and mend their hearts by being generous and considerate. Even the most difficult message can be conveyed with positive and affirming words.
Listen to them
Sometimes people are in need of someone to whom they can open up their heart, to whom they can share their problems. So provide them this opportunity, make them realize about your presence in their life. Speaking out their feelings and emotions can help them find a proper solution for their problem and to make them feel better.
Offer possible solutions
Being in a plight to be surrounded by hardships we are unable to think clearly, and to resolve our issues. So always try to give them a possible solution to their problems.
Make them confident
Confidence is necessary to move ahead with full potential. So make them confident, by pointing out their powers, their self-realization, and to confess their mistakes because more people learn from their mistakes and errors.
I hope this is something to you.
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