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Beware Of Fake Friends

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3 weeks ago
Date: 26th of September
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Hey beautiful family, what's up? Today I am early here as I told you in my previous story that the workload is less now. That is the reason I am describing a new story about life's journey. This one is so familiar with everyone. Because we are still having them in our life. Now, you have a understood about today's topic after reading the title. Well, then why are we waiting for? Let's go.

Topic: Beware Of Fake Friends

Friendship is a divine gift from the Almighty and I think anyone can understand it without subtitle or description. Because we all have friends in our life. A life without them is hardly be imagined. They are with us when we started our journey and the relationship breaks only after death. That's why it is so important and impactful in our life. But, here is a thing that we should be aware of. That is fake friendship and it's harmful for our life. We are here to discuss about it. I am discussing about some signs to recognise them.

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Will Show You Too Much Loyalty

What we look in a person to believe in? It's loyalty. It makes us assured about a person. Fake friends use this as a weapon against you. They will show ultimate loyalty towards you. They will even support you in such a work which our family or any others don't like. This much loyalty will make you blind in his trust issue. Blindly you trust them and one day they show their true colours. Then you have nothing to do but to blame yourself. 

Jealous

If you succeed in life or you win in some sorts of races or achieve something your long time desired, they will feel jealous about it. They will talk less or if they do, they will pinch you with their words. You know that you had done nothing wrong but they will make you feel like that. Your happiness can not be tolerated by them. They will not appreciate your hard work.

Fault Finder

Really it happens in life. No matter how good you are at your job, they will never stop finding faults in it.  They start finding faults not only in your present work but in your past works too. Look, we are human being and to err is human which we all know. No one is perfect but for them, this theory is useless. They think that finding faults will make your success grounded.

Liar

Who didn't face this? Just step infront of me. I am sure no one will raise their hands. We all have suffered this one. Some of our friends lied something to our beloved ones and we suffered for it. Familiar incident, right? Fake friends will be a great liars. They use their skills not only for their own purposes but also to make sure that you fall a victim to any kind of danger.

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Opportunity Finder

The ugly face of their so called friendship only be seen when they find an opportunity against you. And they left no stones unturned untill banish you from that place. How cruel a man be like? You will have the answer after having such friends in your life.

The Solution

Well, justify these points before making friendships in adulthood. In our early days, our parents always there to advise us about right and wrong. In teenage, we start falling from heaven as we choose wrong persons in our life. We should be more concern about it. Just look through a person. Check the background story. Be 100% assure before calling someone your true friend. History itself is the biggest proof that great persons were betrayed by their close friends. Be careful dear. Your life is so important to you and your family but not for them. I am not telling that all friends are like that. You have the power to judge the right or wrong, don't you? So my advice will be this, that you should justify your decisions about people. Afterall, it's your life and you are the authority. Decide and choose friends wisely dear.

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Thanks for reading. Yours ever,

©Irina

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Its difficult to determine who a fake friend is and who is not. Best thing is to focus on being a real friend and a real one will come in due time.

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3 weeks ago

We have to focus & beware of it. Thanks buddy.

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3 weeks ago

You're welcome dear.

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3 weeks ago

I think jealousy is the only reason which creates evil vibes between friendship. Because if one is successful and the other is not then I am damn sure there will be a lot of misunderstanding. It's very hard to find true people nowadays.

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3 weeks ago

But he have to find. Rather we would than have fake ones.

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3 weeks ago

It is so important to choose our friends wisely. Surround yourself with people that will help you grow in every aspect.

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3 weeks ago

Indeed dear. Thanks for your words

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3 weeks ago

People who claim to be your friends but aren't real ones abound. Better to have a real friend than a bunch of fake ones.

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3 weeks ago

Exactly. They think we won't survive but we can.

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3 weeks ago

Its better to have one friend or alone than having a lot of fake friends

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3 weeks ago

I agreed with you dear.

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3 weeks ago

True friend help to achieve the friend success. Today it is so rare to find one and I am lucky to have. Fake friends usually experience in middle school or high school.

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3 weeks ago

The best time to be aware of it. But we fail.

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3 weeks ago

Friends are everywhere but we should choose whom are real. Be with friends who is real outside and inside. It's ok to be friendly to everyone as long as you are real to your self

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3 weeks ago

Great words dear. I appreciate it.

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3 weeks ago

I'm not that friendly the reason that I don't have fake friends. But I have a lot of friends, so blessed that GOD give me the right people to be with.

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3 weeks ago

You are blessed dear. A reason to smile. Good to know about it.

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3 weeks ago

Wonderful article dear and truly admire your choice. This content is much needed for everyone. Hats off dear.

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3 weeks ago

I appreciate your words brother. Well, I just wanted to let people know about it.

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3 weeks ago

I always have that in mind. Especially because I used to be betrayed by my friends before. So, until now, I kept in my mind that I should really see to it that I keep those "Friends" that never betray me or even those who will push me to do evil things ever again..

Nice meeting you by way.. :) 👋😊

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3 weeks ago

Hey dear, I am holding your hand. I know that pain.

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3 weeks ago

Life without friends is useless.But we must beware of such friends. There is no place for cheating type friends in our lives. We have to be careful about it.

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3 weeks ago

Yes dear, you have said it right.

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3 weeks ago

Yes this is really important we should beware of fake friends. Nowadays it's rarely to find a loyal friends. Never easily trust to someone. Since you don't know something a traitor happens.

There are a lot of victims like this. We must try to learn to be observer. Since in the end we will be only hurt and cried for knowing the truth that everything is just a fake.

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3 weeks ago

Beware of fake friends dear. I care about you.

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3 weeks ago

Thank you so much Irina. You too please...🙏

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3 weeks ago

We should not trust easily to someone because, in the end, we are the ones who will be going to suffer from their wrongdoings against us.

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3 weeks ago

That's why I feel that we should be more careful about selecting friends.

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3 weeks ago

Which is true :)

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3 weeks ago

We may not know it but who we associate with affect us, and sometimes our friends can push us forward and sometimes they hold us back, the great thing about friends is that we get to choose them unlike family!

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3 weeks ago

In the end we suffered. It would be better if we be careful about selecting friends.

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3 weeks ago