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10 months ago

Hello World!!! About 16 days has already passed in January, this new day is going to lose it's existence too and I am the only one who didn't do anything productive in this month . I'm not regretting for those days as I'm always spend my days like this. I'm not good at making to do list as I always fail to follow those goals that's why I don't even try to write all those things which I wants to do. But now, I'm trying to make a 'Not to do list' , I hope I will be able to follow these this time, let's see what my future holds for me.

Let's delve into today's topic without farther delay....

Believe in every Words & Opinions

Often we makes mistakes by listening to others. We forgot that words can't always reveal the truth. We have to remember our real value does not decrease because of someone's lame opinion who are not able to see our worth with their open eyes. So don't hate yourself for everything you are not in actual just to please others in vain and start to love yourself for everything you are in real because people believes what they want to believe.

Never allow yourself be made a victim of others. When you depend on people to build yourself up then you're the one who are giving them the power, the right to bully you, to break you down.

You don't need someone else's opinion to know your true value. Let them judge you. Let them gossip about you. Let them misunderstood you But don't allow your own self to doubt your real identity. Just keep shining brightly as usual. Don't listen to everyone, don't believe in every words & opinions because Opinions don't define your Reality

Overthinking

Some of us including myself as usual loves to worry or overthink everytime about our future, about our past, about our present, about people, about our surroundings and about plenty of things.

We need to realize that overthinking can't take away our tomorrow's troubles, yesterday's pains and sorrows but it has the ability to take away today's peace and happiness.

Whatever is going to happen in future will surely happen no matter how much we try to stop from happening them , whether we overthink or not So it is absolutely better to give our attention to our beautiful present in lieu of our past and future.

We have lots of worries in our life , most of which never happened to us and surely will neverever happen to us too. By overthinking we often create those problems which don't even exist in actual.

Overthinking can't do nothing but to ruin our happiness. By overthinking we can't change our unchangeable past or upcoming future but we are just wasting our precious time and our lovely present. And these things will steal your joys, all your potential So stop overthinking and work for your future in your present coz overthinking will lead us to sadness.

Giving Importance to Negetive Thoughts & Negetive People

I , We, need to take a break from all the negetive thoughts, negetive people for a while because now it seems too heavy to carry for me and I'm no longer able to carry those worst things anymore.

Our lives will be much much better if we can stop the negetive thoughts and negetive people from attacking us. We need to change our perspective towards them, how we engage with them. Observe them,listen to them but don't believe them. Let those worst things pass like clouds. When you stop to give them your attention they will pass, this is the exact thing they can actually do So don't worry about those negetive personalities and thoughts.

Dweeling on Mistakes

It is the most common thing, we all do. Can't we deny this? I guess no one can deny this true fact.

We all are allowed to look back at our past but we are not allowed to live there for a long period. It will hurt us, only us. If we continue to live at our past ,if we don't let our past die then our past won't let us live peacefully and happily.

We need to forgive ourselves for making plenty of mistakes but we should not forget those lessons we got from our mistakes, learn from your mistakes, it will never give you a chance to regret over your past. Forget your mistakes but don't forget what they taught you.

Don't curse yourself for your mistakes because everyone makes mistakes not only you. If you make any mistake then it doesn't mean that you have to pay for those mistakes the rest of your life. Remember some experienced people also makes some mistakes, it doesn't mean you're a failure. Mistakes are the proofs of your aliveness. Mistakes makes stories & Stories makes Histories.

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I want to stop here, thank you sooo much for being here with me...

Thank you sooo much for all of your support and love. Thank you sooo much my readers, commentators, upvoters, subscribers. Wishing you a blessed and healthy night.

Irene 6.56pm 16.01.2022 Lead Image :— Own Image

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As human beings, we are all committing mistakes what's important is to accept all those and make a stepping stone to move forward.

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10 months ago

I like what you said about opinions not defining your reality. This is true. You know your truth and that's all that matters. ❤

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10 months ago

Thank you for agreeing with my points. We are the one who knows our real value so other's opinions can't define ourselves.

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10 months ago

Overall this states that we should love ourselves. I don't like to overthink now, it's not good for me:)

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10 months ago

It is indeed a good proof that you're growing positively, we should not overthink coz it will hurt only us and it will not allow us from achieving something.

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10 months ago

Talking about OVERTHINKING, I learnt one time ago that if we engage in overthinking over a matter that seems unsolvable, we are directly telling God to stay off the matter cos He can't do it, but when we think less and leave it for God, He comes down to take over. Overthinking can not solve problems

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10 months ago

You're absolutely right. We need to trust on Almighty and not to overthink over anything, it will only hurt us.

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10 months ago

I'm guilty of overthinking, and I just can't help it. I guess I need to work towards changing that part of me.

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10 months ago

Just like you I can't stop overthinking but I just realized no matter how much we overthink we can't change our past so it is better not to overthink. Best of luck to you, you will surely change this part of yours.

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10 months ago

Yes my friend Irene I want to be sure if you are a boy or girl . We must not curse our self just because of our mistakes I do that most times but I will change my behavior . Nice meeting you once again

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10 months ago

I'm a girl , it's absolutely necessary not to curse our own selves for making mistakes because by making mistakes we can grow and learn more things. Nice to meet you too.

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10 months ago

Dear Irene, you have said many complete and useful points, by observing these points, not only we will have a better life, but we will also have more peace. I wish in the new year, we all do these things, then everything is very much better...

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10 months ago

Your appreciation means a lot for me. Thank you Soo much for being here with me.

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