The world as we know it is one large expanse of land filled up with people of different races and beliefs systems. It is true that the world isn’t a roller-coaster ride because of its initial design - the world wasn’t designed to be totally easy.
I like to think of the world as GIGO (garbage in garbage out), that is, we are what we feed into the world. If we approach the world with self-pity or mediocrity, be rest assured that we would never get anything great in return.
So the best thing ever is to grab the bull by the horn and face the world head on regardless of the negatives and the world will in turn respect your courage and give you its great blessings.
Perhaps the thought in your mind right now is: I had grabbed the bull by the horns a thousand times, it just doesn’t work out since I am still where I am-no changes. Hey! I got news for you, DON’T STOP! Stay committed and do things right.
It is one thing to know what you want to achieve and it is another thing to know how to achieve what you want and that’s where reality kicks in. Reality goes beyond mere saying your goals, it includes going against all odds that may stand to obstruct your journey to success and striving to achieve it.
For instance, while you are on a journey to a village and your fuel is running low, you will stop at a fuel station to refill your tank so as to continue the journey.
When you finally get to the village, you feel relieved having reached your destination especially if it is a very long journey. The distinction however is that in life, there is no such thing as the destination, the journey is everything.
So when you reach your village, you can get relieved and continue journeying down to my own village. Lol! It is synonymous to making your first million dollars and continuing to 2 million and so on depending on your earning plan.
Recently, I stopped looking at the net worth of world billionaires and the reason for this is simple - by looking at their net worth, it makes me fantasize about being in possession of their huge fortunes and I will just subconsciously slide into some sort of delusional grandeur.
When I fantasize often about these fortunes, it clouds my reasoning to think up ways to create my own wealth (instead of the general idea that it will inspire me to create wealth).
The realness of reality also applies to marriage, you hear comment from young ladies and young guys stating their choice of future spouse such as; my spouse must be a perfect gentle person, tall, beautiful/handsome, God-fearing etc.
They search relentlessly for this perfect spouse without understanding the reality that there is no perfect spouse out there, we all are just doing our best to succeed.
Amazingly, when reality rear its nasty at them and the Mr/Mrs. right isn’t forthcoming, they settle for anyone regardless of whether the person has the aforementioned qualities or not.
Marry someone you found that completes you and work it out as each day unfolds just as you would in a business. Call life a trial and error exercise if you want to and you wouldn’t be wrong.
There you have it guys, reality is a real entity. Live in the moment without a blindfold so as to enjoy the unlimited richness of life which is sandwiched between negativity and fear.
However, such sandwich can’t be enjoyed when eaten straight up, you have to first off remove the negativity and fear. To do that is by understanding the reality of things you have laid out in your imagination and making it real by staying committed and doing things correctly and in a very smart way.
Join me at the top since the ground is already overcrowded!
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