Adjustment in a relationship is only possible when two person has the exact same goal.
They can fight poverty,accidents, fights together.
Relationship Goal:
It is a common case in this modern era but for me, it's a peculiar case or fact.
*From Shakespeare- The course of true love never did run smooth.
We know Cancer is dangerous disease. : '(It is a horrible disease for the human race.:' (Nobody wants to suffer from this disease.: '(But unfortunately some people suffer from this disease. If it becomes more invasive, then if the loved one knows about the disease, then most of the relationship is lost.
But I can see from the picture that even though the girl is sick, the boy did not ignore her love. So, we can say that, Real love don't die .
Anyway, today I'm going to write about this peculiar fact.
People get engaged with another one as they feel good or loveable to them. Of course, it's a common affair in our daily life. We often get engaged with others without thinking about what will be happened in the future. Some people do love to get happiness & for that, they don't get engaged with someone passionately but keep more than one & spend time with them in real life as well as in virtual life.
If someone asks me to give any reference then I can easily prove it because I have more friends who are exactly doing this. They don't love passionately, just do to pass the time & you know what even they don't care or get hurt if they break up. The reason behind it they can't keep their mind or heart in a certain person.
I don't feel bad about that even I don't say anything bad to my friends because this is not a perfect era where you can find true love easily.
On the other hand, those girls also get engaged with one another & this process is going continuously.
So, therefore we can't say it as real love or even can't say it love because in love two people are committed to each other & care for each other.
From different sources, we have learned that there are two kinds of love one is divine & another one is following.
At present following love is greatly seen. Following love, it means to pass time, stay together to get happiness & if the interest on one another is finished then they break up easily. It is so common in this present time. Girls use boys as support & boys do the same, they stay with girls to get unethical happiness. Those people are seen here & there.
Divine love, it means the love which is considered as pure love. This kind of love consists of a couple who get married by following the religious view. Devine love means sacrificing. If a lover sacrifice time, money, health, wealth above all life for his / her loving one must be said as divine love. Divine love is so rare at the present time.
But divine love is still consisted & believe me who are committed to each other really get the pure happiness which comes from heaven.
In the past, most of the people get engaged really loved their loving one passionately. Their relationship goal was ultimately getting married & as in the past, it was not seen that people got love marriage but whoever did that really loved each other passionately.
But in this present era, a person meets with thousands of people via virtual life as well as real life. Here people can't find happiness in one person. They always want more & better than before, as a result, their relationship doesn't exist long. They often break up & find another one.
As I said people can meet with many people via the internet we often get information about distance love.
We often get news that girls from around the world come to Bangladesh for only the means of real love.
From my own perspective, love means to sacrifice ownself but not changing ownself for that person whom we love. If your thinking, believes are pure then your lover never interfaces in your personal life. Don't love to get only happiness which may not last long. Love someone if you have a strong feeling on that person whom you want to love. If you want to get love by forcing or by attacking emotionally don't forget this love has no validity.
May many of you laugh at me & do react on my status but don't forget it's my own thought. You can agree with me or not but love shouldn't be abused. Be careful with whom do you meet or make a relationship.
The only goal we should have when it comes to relationships is that she doesn’t make us unhappy, everything else is irrelevant.