We all are broken but ....

All of us have one thing in common. We are all broken. Broken by someone, broken by ourselves and broken in a way that only we can truly understand what we went through or are going through. Everyone of us has our story. Story filled with pain, regret, remorse, bad decisions, anger, frustration and all those negative emotions which grow stronger after we break. The choas resides in our heart and mind and the world simply doesn't seem to understand what we are going through. Everyday becomes the same for us. We get habituated with that fake smile we put on. What triggers us the most is our inside. To be broken is to be dead emotionally and mentally. Most of us stop trusting people, start getting attracted to the negative and often give birth to various addictions. Be it cigarettes, drinks, weed, or anything which is harmful for us. We find them peaceful. We are unknowingly led by the desire to kill ourselves slowly all because of that one person who left us or a situation which was a result of our inappropriate decision. We just refuse to come out of it, and start accepting those broken pieces and later on when tje realisation dawns upon us, it is either too late or we simply lose the motivation. And on the other hand, there are people who seek lesson from their brokenness and do their best to assemble the broken parts together. They always have a option of giving up and joining the rest, but they don't do it because they are wise enough to see the bigger picture. Deep down they know that all that is happening or had occurred is all because of their own selves. This doesn't mean that they don't cry or regret or feel depressed. They do feel the pain too, but they choose to heal with it. Life will break you a lot of times. It is you who has to choose wether to learn and grow or to cry and destroy. Make sure you choose wisely. Remember this, the universe helps only those who help themselves. Don't think it is impossible to come out of that state. Try it. Give it your heart and soul. Trust me, you will be surprised to see the change. Believe in yourself and trust the universe. It will take time, but it will be worth it.