@IgorBelykh 18 November 2022 more from that month

11 things to stop doing to yourself. Right from this day. 1. Stop spending time with the wrong people. Life is too short to spend it with people who squeeze all the juice out of you. If someone wants you to be present in his life, he will take care of your comfort. You don't have to fight for a seat next to him. Never cling to those who constantly level your worth. And remember that real friends are not those who support you when you are already on horseback, but those who stay by your side when things are bad. 2. Stop running from your problems. Meet them face to face. No, it won't be easy. There is no creature in the world that can perfectly take a hit. We are not required to solve all problems immediately. We're just wired differently. The norm for us is to be upset, to feel pain, to be sad, to stumble and fall. This is the meaning of life - to face problems, learn, adapt and eventually solve them. That is what makes us human. 3. Stop lying to yourself. You can do this with anyone, but not with yourself. Our lives can only improve when we allow ourselves to take risks, and the first, hardest risk for us is to be honest with ourselves. 4. Stop putting your needs on the back burner. The worst thing is to lose yourself, investing too much in loving someone else and forgetting about your own importance. No, do not leave others, but help yourself also. If there is an opportune moment to hear yourself and do what is truly important to you, then this moment has come. 5. Don't try to be someone else. One of the hardest things in life is to be yourself in a world that is trying to make you look like everyone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, and someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Do not try to change yourself to please people. Be yourself, and those you really need will love you for who you are. 6. Stop holding on to the past. You will not be able to start a new chapter of your life while you are rereading the previous one. 7. Stop being afraid of mistakes. Doing something and making mistakes is at least ten times more effective than doing nothing. Every success bears traces of past failures, and every failure leads to success. You will end up regretting what you did NOT do much more than what you did. 8. Stop beating yourself up for past mistakes. We can love the wrong person and mourn our mistakes, but even when things go wrong, one thing is for sure: mistakes help us find the right people and the right things. We all err, struggle, and even mourn the mistakes of the past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggle, you - here and now - have the opportunity to build your day and your future. Whatever happens in your life is preparing you for another step into the future. 9. Stop trying to buy happiness. Much of what we want is expensive. But the truth is, the things that really make us happy — love, laughter, and working on our feelings — are completely free. 10. Stop looking for someone to be happy. If you are unhappy with yourself, your personality, then a long-term relationship with someone will not make you happier. You need to create stability in your life before sharing it with someone else. 11. Stop messing around. Don't think too long or you'll create problems even where there were none. Assess the situation and take decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to resist. Any progress comes with risks. And here the order is important. You can't read without being literate. 11 things to stop doing to yourself. Right from this day. 1. Stop spending time with the wrong people. Life is too short to spend it with people who squeeze all the juice out of you. If someone wants you to be present in his life, he will take care of your comfort. You don't have to fight for a seat next to him. Never cling to those who constantly level your worth. And remember that real friends are not those who support you when you are already on horseback, but those who stay by your side when things are bad. 2. Stop running from your problems. Meet them face to face. No, it won't be easy. There is no creature in the world that can perfectly take a hit. We are not required to solve all problems immediately. We're just wired differently. The norm for us is to be upset, to feel pain, to be sad, to stumble and fall. This is the meaning of life - to face problems, learn, adapt and eventually solve them. That is what makes us human. 3. Stop lying to yourself. You can do this with anyone, but not with yourself. Our lives can only improve when we allow ourselves to take risks, and the first, hardest risk for us is to be honest with ourselves. 4. Stop putting your needs on the back burner. The worst thing is to lose yourself, investing too much in loving someone else and forgetting about your own importance. No, do not leave others, but help yourself also. If there is an opportune moment to hear yourself and do what is truly important to you, then this moment has come. 5. Don't try to be someone else. One of the hardest things in life is to be yourself in a world that is trying to make you look like everyone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, and someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Do not try to change yourself to please people. Be yourself, and those you really need will love you for who you are. 6. Stop holding on to the past. You will not be able to start a new chapter of your life while you are rereading the previous one. 7. Stop being afraid of mistakes. Doing something and making mistakes is at least ten times more effective than doing nothing. Every success bears traces of past failures, and every failure leads to success. You will end up regretting what you did NOT do much more than what you did. 8. Stop beating yourself up for past mistakes. We can love the wrong person and mourn our mistakes, but even when things go wrong, one thing is for sure: mistakes help us find the right people and the right things. We all err, struggle, and even mourn the mistakes of the past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggle, you - here and now - have the opportunity to build your day and your future. Whatever happens in your life is preparing you for another step into the future. 9. Stop trying to buy happiness. Much of what we want is expensive. But the truth is, the things that really make us happy — love, laughter, and working on our feelings — are completely free. 10. Stop looking for someone to be happy. If you are unhappy with yourself, your personality, then a long-term relationship with someone will not make you happier. You need to create stability in your life before sharing it with someone else. 11. Stop messing around. Don't think too long or you'll create problems even where there were none. Assess the situation and take decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to resist. Any progress comes with risks. And here the order is important. You can't read without being literate. © CryptoGuru