@IgorBelykh 1 November 2022 more from that month

Does your child do this? - does not obey (you have to repeat everything a hundred times) - often hysterical, naughty and whining over trifles - rude, snaps and always blames others for his mistakes - lazy and does not help around the house - does not want to study, constantly puts off important things for later - hangs on the phone and is not interested in anything else. And you are already so tired of constant swearing and scandals! A child is like a prickly hedgehog: do not say a word - immediately with hostility! There are always some grievances and conflicts ... My dears, I understand you so! Like it or not, and sometimes you can’t stand it and scream. After all, mom is also not iron ... But! Relationships with children don't have to be difficult. • Even if the mother-in-law says that he is “spoiled” and now it’s only to beat and punish • Even if it seems to you that he doesn’t understand “in a good way” Believe me, children know how to obey from the 1st time and fulfill requests without shouting. They don't do anything to spite you. They have no purpose to bring you and themselves to a nervous breakdown. It’s just that children don’t know how to “safely” express their feelings and emotions. Believe me, they also really want to approach their mother, tell about all the troubles and get support. Complain about a nasty classmate or an unfair grade at school. Tell how painfully he fell on the street, but no one regretted it. And that your favorite toy is broken, and the T-shirt is torn. And so much more... But it's scary. It’s scary to tell, and in response to hear that you are again such and such, whining over trifles, you don’t save things, you study poorly, you talk. So you have to keep everything in yourself, suppress and hope that it will pass. It won't pass! You can't even imagine how one random word or deed can hurt a child for years to come. Even if it seems like nonsense to you. The answer is simple Help your child! Teach him to cope with emotions and not fall into tantrums and rudeness. © CryptoGuru