Need to Forgive But not to Forget
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Forgive and Never Forget
Forgive me first for not being active this past few days you already know that read has maintenance and I can't open my account. Luckily this night it opened and I try to write an article that was brewing in my mind this past day. Are you the kind of person that forgives easily and forget what happened at all? Or you forgive but you do not forget it. In this journey of life, I have experienced many things that hurt me the most, and those were made by people sometimes I trust. They lied for their sake not knowing it hurts other people in the process. I am the kind of person who will forgive you if you show me that you are sincere. But I never forget the lesson you have brought to me. It is the same for a nation to forgive the past but never forget the lessons it had to teach us. There was a friend of mine who never hide his doing from me. He continues to do things I know are not good I constantly reminded him to stop because some will get hurt in the process. One day he told me that he will change for good I am pleased because it is for him though. But in the end, it was a lie because some of our friends told me that he continue to do those not-good things. When did I ask him one simple question of why? He just answered me he does that so no one will bug him. He told us lies so we will stop to keep reminding him to do good. He asked for forgiveness. Being the kind of person that forgives I forgave him but I never forget the lesson he gave to me. One's a person who can't resist bad things he will go there even he says no. He keeps venturing on things he is used to. I never talk to him about that now because I know he will just lie again. I know promises are made to be broken. And I never see him also for year's hope he is fine. Forgiving is hard especially for those people who have a stone heart but I can't disagree with them especially if they were hurt badly. Sometimes it takes time to heal to be able to forgive someone. And it's a normal process in our life. And as for me, it is ok to forgive but I see if he or she is sincere. But I don't easily forget I remember all the things it has thought me in my life because of the lessons it made me stronger. This season may we learn to forgive those who have done not so good things to us but don't forget the lessons it has given unto us. Have a Happy Holidays 🎅 my dear friends bless us all always and be safe. All Rights Reserved @IamAshrone Lead image from mamaingrace.com All were given proper credits
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Hi, my friend, again. Forgiving is a difficult task when the heart is not included. And forgetting does not have to do with the fact itself, but with the feeling, it infringed. So, whoever forgives must forget the pain of the evil caused, and not the evil itself. In addition to contributing to change, whether or not he participates in the situation. Loving reprimand is superior to passive indulgence. Although I have no reason to celebrate Christmas, it is no reason not to wish you well this holiday season. May God bless you and keep you always.
Thank you my friend for your good wishes. Hope you find a reason to celebrate this season. All the best for this coming year. Bless you too my friend.
Now someone talking as I wanted. I am the one always want to forgive the betrayers. But forgetting them? Naaah.... I'm not that guy.
Same here my friend I can forgive but I can't forget.