Self love ,defined as " love of self" or " regard for ones own happiness or advantage" .How ever through out the centuries self love has adopted a more positive connotation through pride ,parades, self respect Movement, self love protests , the hippie era, the New age feminist movement as well as the increase in mental health awareness that promotes self love as intrinsic to self help and support groups working to prevent substance abuse and suicide. . . Just your regular Wikipedia definition. The kind of self love I am on these days is focusing on me always been a giver and I'm giving it all to myself one way or the other. Currently its losing weight I have this new found drive and motivation in me to get out of bed (trust me its a challenge✌) ,have breakfast (which I never have😆) ,eat healthy ,go to the gym . I wanna do this for myself a gift to me from myself☺. And ik I'm gonna be consistent with it because for once I feel like this needs to be done I can't cry about being like "Other Girls" and do nothing about it. Being like some one else is still not my goal😎 I'm gonna come out as a better version of myself. I'll still love my curves , the thinning hair,the acne prone face , the entirely marked body , I accept all of it ,but for once I'm not gonna let it be, I will find a solution and do something about it. Because its my body and only I can criticize it, change it or keep it the way it is. . So plz motivate your sis ,to keep on going on the journey she is, I'm calm, I'm positive, I'm stable, I'm alive and I'm beautiful☺ and that's all that matters!!🙂