Being a human, living in this very judgemental world, we can't prevent insecurities. Especially, when it talks about money and beauty. We can't deny the fact about it, because it is the reality we are facing nowadays.

Other people easily get jealous to other individual, it's because they have a beautiful personality or good in the outside appearance, compare to them. Despite of that, we must still remember that we are all unique and beautiful enough, created by God. Which means, no matter who we are and what we are as individual, let's be proud of ourselves.

We are unique from each other

I, myself sometimes felt that way. Honestly, I can hide the insecurities inside but I can't deny it always. Looking at to other teenagers, they are more privilege to have a good and luxury life. They have lot's of money and have a good personality that the world requires. Comparing myself to them makes me feel different and way-out from them. Then thinking that life is very deceitful. Until I realized everything by the word of God. It explained to me how unique and wonderfully I am, made by my Creator. Likely the same as yours, perfectly made-up by Him.

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Margaret Mead once said, “Always remember that you are absolutely unique, just like everyone else”. That means if we compare ourselves to others we are not completely unique at all. We have diverse beliefs, thoughts and perspective in life. Also we have difference in beauty and the way we look for. Apparently, each one of us has limitations and dissimilarities from where we belong to. For it doesn't matter how rich or poor the way we have in this life. More importantly, we owned a kind heart and good intentions from inside and out.

Frankly to tell that some of us is just only looking at the outside appearance of a person. We should've forgot how important and valued the inside personality. Sometimes, judging someone else is easily to voice out, not even recognize what the truth is. Suchlike, how we see others in their image then directly condemn them. Keep in mind always, for what we are is who we are. No one else compared to us and be just us. If you feel and think like you are absolutely not beautiful, your very mistaken by that. Just think positive about yourself and exercise your thoughts not to compare yourself from others.

Being beautiful means always feeling good about yourself, whether it is because of makeup or nice clothes, but it is by having confidence and empowering yourself. This even means loving yourself for who you are and accepting others for who they are. We can also define our beauty which comes from within. Our good character as an individual will tell us how unique and different we are from other individuals. Every one of us, given a varied talent and skills that will made us a unique and extraordinary than anything else.

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In addition, good attitude is also important in each unique personalities. Some may adore you and will envy you because you are absolutely peerless, incomparable and odd. But not everyone will like you, rather some will hate you. Totally clear to us, that being unique is also being responsible to our self. We must be moulded and a good influence to other people as well. By that we can be more proud about our self uniqueness where we can also used to help others. Encouraging them to be confident enough and be fearless to try new difference about yourself.

Endnotes:

Ignore your self critic and continue doing the things that makes you feel happy. You are very meaningful and special person. You don't need to strive hard to make yourself more like others. Just be confident to be your self. You're always be unique to anyone else. You can blend in with everyone else, but being different from them allows you to be yourself and to be more creative.

You can shine bright like a star in the sky in your own way. For personality begins where comparison leaves off. Be unique and memorable. Be always self-assured and proud for who you are. You're amazing just the way you are.

Until next time... Thank you for reading.

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