Start Over

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3 years ago

Set back are bound to happen in life. Is it a failed agreement or promise? It may be a broken friendship or trust? Sometimes it doesn't matter what happens when you set your goals at the highest point in the sky. Trust that your goals are worthwhile. When you feel like you have no more to reach, you must have faith in your goals, goals are what makes you high in life. You feel disappointed and ask questions like “why me?

Truly compared to others you're not doing so well. You see things working out perfectly for your friend, colleagues, ex-classmates etc and that add to your worries. Pressure from your parent is also there, your siblings look up to you but you had no one to run to when you were their age. Sometimes you feel like shouting for the weight of the load you are carrying is weighing you down.

 Also, you are burdened with things you believe you shouldn't be. You’re a student but you are already saddled with the responsibility of fending for yourself. You work tirelessly while you study. Others look at you and wonder why you work so hard. You couldn’t attend the faculty dinner not because you don’t wish to, but thinking of the $50 gown to buy, the shoes, the makeup and the price of the table, you crawl back to your room. This is a luxury you can’t afford. You consider joining the quick way to money scheme but your upbringing won’t allow you. You prefer the slow and steady way to success.

 Ranting won't help, does it?. Anger set in when you get a major setback, with the situation you are in, you believe you don’t deserve the kind of treatment life is giving you. Why aren’t you born into a rich family, you daydream all day about the wonderful things you’d do if you are this or that. But when you are done daydreaming you find your empty bowl right in front of you and your empty stomach giving you signals that it needs to be refilled. You wonder how you’ll start again. Where do you start from? How do you regain lost grounds?

To top it all, if you're like many people, you're probably sitting there beating yourself up over the mistakes you've made, the opportunities you missed, or simply for not doing anything.

Or you probably wish that you could do something to fix your mistakes, to get back what you've lost, or to make things right. Well, if you're holding on to anger towards yourself instead of forgiving yourself, then you need to let it go. You see, holding on to anger towards yourself will never serve any useful purpose. There's no outlet for it, no justification for it. It's unnecessary. Heck, it's toxic. And when you hold onto that anger for too long, all it does is slowly imbalance your inner-ego system. This creates a black hole within your psyche that sucks in your energy and feeds your insecurities when you're not looking.

Very possible you will turn to a shadow of yourself. You no longer appreciate the ones you have. You become a version of yourself that you never wanted. Nothing satisfy you again. Your Oliver twist wants something more than "more". but in your haste, you lose everything. The warning signs were there, the red flags but you ignore them. And now that the deed is down, you bit your finger with regret.

Erase that thought. Today is the day, do not procrastinate or push your comeback to tomorrow. Starting over is a familiar story. It's a part of how we define ourselves. There's something familiar about the moment where you meet your future self. Usually, moments like these are chaotic, confusing and muddy. Why not cut through the confusion and live your best life from day one? Why not take advantage of your starting over moment and finally get the apartment you want? Why not get a fresh haircut? Or get a new job? Maybe get a tattoo? lol.

Revival starts now- your revival. I hope you get the point. Starting over is a great time to do things that have been put off for a while or you've never quite gotten around to doing.

Thanks for Reading! 🤗💚🤗

This is an article using the style used in "Why not Acrostic?" by @McJulez

 

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Start over aren't easy and it can only be easy if we can take failure as part of success which means when we fail it doesn't mean the end of road but a stepping stone to success.

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3 years ago

Nice one, I think I need to start over

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3 years ago

Muchas son las veces en las que comenzamos algo pensando que nos irá muy bien esa es la actitud, pero aveces me pregunto cuando será el dia que algo me de resultados. Yo soy una persona que me gusta aprender y siempre me estoy inventando algo nuevo que hacer, será por eso que no avanzo. No me lo había preguntado hasta ahorita que respondo tu excelente artículo.

Será que también comenzar de nuevo es contraproducente. Me lo pregunto a mi misma y siempre llego a la respuesta, que Si, es bueno comenzar de nuevo, algún día me llegara mi suerte, por que lo merezco.

A ti que te valla excelente en todo lo que emprendas.

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3 years ago

Oh the deep thoughts and sentiments this one has. Thank you for this. :)

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3 years ago

Siempre debemos empensar de nuevo nunca nos cansemos ya que con lamentaciones y frustraciones no avanzaremos en la vida. Linda tarde para ti Te saludo desde Cuba

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3 years ago

I've learnt over time that it's Never too late to start again. A child that falls while trying to walk doesn't stop there, he starts over again

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3 years ago

Sometimes we set goals or we see ourselves living at the top but when there is a reason to feel down we are completely captured in those moments...

We can as well start over, and see things differently... if your cost can't reach to get them then why go in the first place .. this article is really lovely and should even be placed in our school group.

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3 years ago

Start over is one of the greatest key to everyone who have a set goal because for every goal there a is a failure attached to it but the greatest to overcome and attain the goal is not to give up and always start over and you will over come.

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3 years ago

It might seem hard to start again but believe it will be way easier this time .💪

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3 years ago

I love this article of yours, so inspiring! It encourages us to keep moving forward, even though I, myself get lazy sometimes, but I know that there's still progress.

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3 years ago

My teacher once told me that the best way to arrange is to scatter, which can also be said as start all over if you want to see the result. This is motivating, you are beginning to be a motivational speaker 😅😅😅

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3 years ago

Very encouraging. Though I still procrastinate, but the most important is I am still moving 🤗

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3 years ago

Complaining and ranting is never the solution. Start over it could be. I like your acrostic here. :)

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3 years ago

To start over it's not easy and it's Sometimes the only way to move forward, you might pass the same circumstances you passed before, but with experience this time.

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3 years ago

How nice you wrote, exactly this mood has happened to me over and over again and I hope to find my way one day.

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3 years ago

Seat back and start over again there is hope everyday,

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3 years ago

So very clever you guys!

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3 years ago

Learned a lot while enjoying completing the letters. I appreciate the encouraging article.

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3 years ago

Very timely to my situation right now. It might be hard to start over but it is what it is. There is no way to be. I can't back down and give up. I need to start over and try again

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3 years ago

That's a great way for a new content, kinda interesting and I'm gonna bookmark it so that I can go back to it whenever I have no topic to made.

Setback are things that really happen and it happen for a reason, it make us challenge. We can start all over again Any time, we have a lot of time for it

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3 years ago

It is never too late to start all over again since we can't go back the the setback then it's better to start all over again in order to move forward

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3 years ago

Truly, setbacks and adversities happen in life but moaning over them or complaining doesn't really do any good. Starting over does :) Love the acrostic there "Start Over"

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3 years ago

I love these, it touches the touchable in me. Thanks alot

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3 years ago

I'm glad to hear this.🤗

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3 years ago

I can so much relate to this.... really moved me and also comforting. Nice article 👏

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3 years ago

Nice..challenge accepted. Uncertainties are part of our lives. We fall so we could learn to get up. Setbacks are made so we could learn to start over. Every day is a chance to do it. We just have to push ourselves up and continue pacing forward towards our goals.

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3 years ago

I got all the starting letters Start over

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