All human beings are liable to err. To be at peace with oneself, the realisation of the fact is essential. Humanity is faced with numerous struggles and difficulties. We should view our own problems as a part of universal struggles and brace ourselves to meet every difficulty with fortitude. To be frantic and desperate on such occasions cannot help the situation. Friends can be helpful in such situations but human wisdeom has its limitations. Faith in God and prayer to Him…
@Gulbano in July 2020
FOCUS ON OUR OWN MISTAKES: If we face any kind of undesirable experience from another person or group, we should not register directly our complaint against him, we should rather try to find out our own weaknesses that give the other person the opportunity to overcome you. It is futile to indulge in complaints and protests. The only right thing to do is to engage in re-plan. By self correction we cam regain the target we want to achieve.
PURIFICATION OF THE MIND: Everything in our life starts with our mindset first and our actions second. Our actions follow our ideas, beliefs and thoughts to make a shift. First start with getting our mind first and then take actions. Purify our mind of all kinds of bias and negativity. God loves those who purify themselves. We should develop ourselves before death. After death there is no possibility of development because There is standstill after death. So we should remove…
FRIENDSHIP, A SPONTANEOUS GIFT: Friendship is a sponstaneous and springs from no conscious choice. It comes naturally and is not the result of deliberate forethought. Those who set price on friendship have no friendship to give because their motives are selfish. They aim the personal gain in some form or the other and their chief concern is to benefit themselves from the friendship of others. They fail to realize that in friendship, ot is more worthy to give than to recieve.…
Freedom is not the absence of commitments, But the ability to choose and commit yourself to what is best for you..
Don't waste life in fear. If you want to do something. Do it with all your might and confidence. Nothing great can be achieved with fear and doubt. We should always believe that we can do and we can achieve our goal.
HOW TO DEAL WITH PEOPLE: Humans are not made of stones. They are open to influence. A human being is a creature who keeps changing. His future is different from his present. This reality must always be kept in view while dealing with a person. Insisting on instant change produces arrogance.
The universe is one being. Everything and everyone is inter-connected through an invisible web of stories. Whether we are aware or not, we are all in a silent conversation. Don't harm. Practise compassion. And we should never gossip behind anyone's back. The words that come out of our mouth don't vanish but are perpetually stored in infinite space and they will come back to us in due time. One person's pain will hurt us all.
TRUE MEANING OF ALHAMDULLELLAH: A person who says "Alhamdullellah Rabbil Alamin" utters words which are creater than the whole universe. This is why according to Hadith," The word Alhamdullellah is so heavy that it fills up the scales." Alhamdullellah Rabbil Alamin is a truth creater than the heavens and the Earth but merely reading lip service is not enough. When one says Alhamdullellah, it should be an utterance that subsumes one's entire being, absorrbs one's entire…
Newspaper, the way of education, its use and abuse: We know that newspaper is essential part of our daily life. No literate person cam do without a newspaper these days. As it contains tremendous amount of news of every country and every clime that's why the first thing one does in morning is to seize the paper and glance through ita pages hungrily. Newspapers keep us in touch with the entire world and make us aware about the events. Every movement of armies, every military…
Death and human life: Practically all the progress that man has made is due to the fact that he is mortal. He has recognised that he is in this world only a little while and this knowledge been good to stimulate him to make diligent use of whatever talents he is edowed with. Because man is subjected to death, he has made fullest use of his facilities and has extracted from nature his secrets to make life bearable if not to conquer death. Our parental instincts are…
Life And Goals: Life without goal is nothing as goals are the source that mark the right path and right destination for a person. In my view the best possible way to achieve the goal is to think about the suitable plan of action. First we need to determine what actually are our endeavours and then write them down. Writing them down on a piece of paper will be just like inscribing them in subconcious and ultimately we get more conscious about our achievements. We know that…
On the day of Arafah, Allah the most exalted, descends to the nearest heaven, and He is pleased with his servants on the earth and and says to those in the heaven," LOOK AT MY SERVANTS, THEY HAVE COME FROM FAR AND NEAR WITH HAIR DISHEVELED, AND FACES COVERED WITH DUST , TO SEEK MY MERCY".
Science, True Human Happiness, and its disadvantages: We know that the modern age is the age of science. The mechines play a very important role in today's world. Two or three generations ago, the lives of our forefathers were comparatively simple and satisfied by manual labour while people's wants at the present day have multiplied and our lives become complex nowadays. In the worlds history if the 18th century was an age of steam then 19th and 20th centuries have been an…
Humanity: We all are human beings and we all want to help one another. Human beings are like that we all want to live by each other's happiness not by each other misery. We should not hate and despise one another. In this world,there is room for everyone. The way of life can be free and beautiful but we all have lost that way. Greed has poisoned man's soul. Greed has barricated the world with hate. Modern mechinery has left us in want. We think too much but feel very little.…
Victorian And The Modern Novelist: While object of 19th century novelist is to create memorable characters,to point a moral or to adorn a table, the modern writer's chief concern is to find out exactly what people are like to record his discoveries. His purpose is psychological research, he wants to get all that there is in any individual and in conducting his researches he discovers, what ofcourse is obvious that human beings are not simple ,far less simple in fact than the…
Introduction to Postcolonial Literature: We all know about "Women's Literature and Minority Literature" that is the literature written by marginalized groups including women,gays, or ethnic minorities, the latter mostly represented by African Americans, Chicanos and Chicanas. "The Women Warrior " written by Maxine Hong Kingston ensure the influential status of texts by women and minorities in contemporary literary criticism. Postcolonial Literature: Now in addition to…
Powerful influence of writer on people of the society: We know that writer has powerful influence on society. The writer may have more powerful influence than the laws making people. Most of use are laws abiding citizens. To obey a number of laws seems natural to the civilized man. Ordinarily we say that these laws of State are for our good, but perhaps behind our obidience to the law of State is the fear of punishment. It is for this reason that maker of peoples laws has a…
Reality of Life: Life can hit hard but always get ready to bounce back, your comeback will be better than ever before. Taking tough hits can be hard and so is moving on. But it is from those tough time that you become stronger, your experiences comes from the problems you face in your life. It is from the hurt that you become healed and ready to bounce back, better and bolder than ever before. So always keep on moving. Just because you are broken does not mean that you can't…
Law of Success: Success comes from experience and experience comes from problems we and failures we are facing in the life. Success is not the monopoly of a single person, or a group. According to the law of nature, everyone is bound to failure and success. sometimes one and sometimes the other. These twin experiences are common to all human beings, both as individual and as a group. Those who are un-aware of this law of nature fail to learn any lesson from experience. Also…
A women: Every woman has a past. Some were physically abused. Some had violent parents. Some had pubertal issues. Some had sexual abuse as a child from their own family members. Some had messed up love stories. Some had been forced into sex in the name of love. Some had been drugged. Some were date raped. Some had been viciously photographed on bed. Some had been blackmailed by their ex-boyfriend. Some were in an abusive relationship.. Some had a broken family. Some had a…
Real Purpose of Education: The real purpose of attaining education should not be restricted to getting a job but to make people conscious or aware. Being aware means that a person can relate the past with the present and plan for the future. An aware person is able to differentiate between a reaction and a positive response. But how does one become aware? One becomes aware by developing a loving heart which is the beginning of all knowledge. To develop a heart that loves…
Importance of Education in Islam: Education has alot of importance in Islam. The first verse revealed this in the Quran. God taught by the pen. He revealed the truth by the pen. Islam is a literature based religion. Islam is to be written about, read and thus taught to others. At the time of Prophet(SAW), the battle of BADR took place. The battle of badr was a defensive war for Muslims but the Muslims won and seventy men from the other group were taken prisoner. Those…
labour( hard work ) and not the luck is the marker of man. Those who depend on luck are lethargic, they are constantly complaining and become gradually demoralised. Those who depend on labour are industrious, watchful, self-reliant and independent. It is now being recognised that success in life depends on hard work.☺️