@GreatWhiteSnarkOnNoiseApp 21 July 2023 edited

Almost every time I see things about "Why so Many Men Are Still Single", I'm reminded that "Incel" is a misnomer. "Volcel", however, is more appropriate. While these men may not be explicitly choosing to be single and/or celibate, they do choose to behave in a manner that non-men find repugnant and repulsive. The irony is that they don't realise as much (or, if they do, they reject the idea because it's outside what they have dreamed of in their philosophy, Horatio). https://medium.com/the-no%C3%B6sphere/netflixs-love-is-blind-shows-why-so-many-men-are-single-today-ebb48a8841ee As for me, my being single and celibate is by my choosing, at least until such time as I am at a point in my life as to be able to accommodate an arrangement/commitment to the contrary. (perhaps to the consternation of some well-meaning folks). On that note, I'd best curtail my coffee imbibing activities and return to the project that might land me a job with a local company. (They're a small team, seem pretty relaxed and work with a tech stack I mostly like. Plus, I can walk there within fifteen minutes.)