In our friend circle we all have mainly three type of friends. I'm one hundred percent sure that you'll have either an introvert friend or an ambivert friend or an extrovert friend.
Those who loves to talks a lot we call them extrovert. Those who don't talk much we named them introvert and those acts both we call them an ambivert.
If you ask me what type I belong to? Than I'll answer that I belong to introverted people's society.
In this article I'll share what kind of problems I've faced for just being an introvert people and how people treated me?
So if you are an introvert like me you can relate this happenings with your life.
This article will also guide you on how to act when someone is treating you badly for just being an introvert.
I'll try to share how I act on this situations when I was hurt internally but anyone didn't noticed.
If you are an extrovert,this article will also tell you how an introvert people really see the world.
Yes introverts people do have emotions, love, pain everything you have in your life just like you.
But the only thing differs ourselves from you is we don't share that much.But that doesn't deny the fact we don't have any feelings.
That doesn't deny the fact we are a emotionless machine. We do cry but you'll never see our tear drops because we are made that way by Almighty.
-Our neighbours, friends sometimes the loved ones, random people thought us we are unsocial and don't know how to talk or say greetings.
But this is totally a misconception about us. As I've said we talk less, very less.Introvert people like us loves to observe more than talk.
Most interesting fact is he/she has already noticed you've beautiful curly blonde hair but he/she will not share it that way.
He/she has already noticed you've splendid eyelashes but as I've said he/she will not share.
This is undoubtedly the most interesting fact of being an introvert.
You will never know how deeply your beauty is appreciated! Amazing!
He/she also praised your beauty internally you may not have listened his/her words but he did praise.
To really understand someone in a introverted way,you need to think an introverted way.
So if you've any introverted friend, he/she than must be a blessing for you. How?
Your introverted friend can work as a third eye for you because we observe details but don't talk that much.
So if you are an introvert and people saying you unsocial don't get hurt because they may not understand who you really are.
So next time if you face this kind of problems don't get depressed because now you know there is a misunderstanding.
-You'll see some people always misses social gatherings.We introverts are always fearful of social gatherings and here some people misunderstand us.
We loves to roam inside our room and can pass an eternity without going outside you believe it or not.
From next time if one of your friends don't attend huge social gatherings don't treat him bad. Instead of treating him wrongly, try to understand his/her problems.
Introvert tend to keep themselves inside a box ,they want to keep themselves pure.They think if they get in touch with more people ultimately there inner self will be ruined.
And if you are a introvert like me and somebody just invited you to join a party.
If you are not in the mood than politely say him no that you'll not be able to join.
If the person truly understand you,feel you than he/she will be appreciate you.
Also if you mistreated than you already know that some people don't really understand us
Another misconception about us is we ignores everything and self-centred person.
I'm clarifying it how this is a misconception.
-Introverts talk less and thinks more that doesn't mean he is only thinking for only himself.
I'll suggest you to pass a month or two with a introvert friend that you'll feel how much he/she cares about his friends.
Everyone doesn't express their inner feelings, carefulness and loves but that doesn't mean he/she doesn't care.
If you lost everyone in your life the only friend that will stay with you is your less expressive friend whom you used to think unsocial.
I've seen a lot of this kind of exemplary friendship in my entire life. I can bet you on this matter.
-We,introverts have tendency to overthink a lot. Though this makes us stupid but it's definitely true.
-We talk with our brains a lot you can say our inside is a secret diary which no one ever read.
If any of your friend seem anxious or heavily concerned about something hold his/her hand and stay beside please.
This is the best gift anyone's can dream of and anyone can get. And if you are an introvert I know it's too hard to stop overthinking cause I'm an over thinker too. One thing I do is to take deep breaths, closing my eyes and let myself loose.
Look Almighty made us that way and let's not judge others based on they talks or not.
They may cares for you or they may loves you whole heartedly which you don't know.
Now, I understand that my husband is an introvert. He doesn't want to go out as I do. He just wants to stay at home rather than say yes to gatherings.
As for me, I can relate to ambivert. 😅