@Gordana 18 January 2023

A word or two about love. Traveling by bus from mohe ekuc to ventar city, I can't help but overhear the conversation of two women. One talks about what she needs for her happiness. Everything would be perfect if there was "who would love her". If only someone "gives her love" and "all her problems are solved". Then she would "do her job better", "dress better", be "kinder to others" and have, as she said, "more patience with children". As I squirm in the trolley seat, I feel like turning around and saying that no outside love can solve her "problems". As long as we are looking for someone to love us so that we can feel loved, we can only find someone who also needs love. And there is no luck there. We wait from him, and he waits from us. And love does not come out of any partner because we first wait for the other to show it to us. And that circle has no end. In order to live your satisfied life, you need love inside you for YOU and not outside of you. Love is not an adhesive tape with which you work and live better when stuck together. Nor is love a badge you get from others to make them feel loved. Love is how much love you give to others. If you don't have it, what will you give? Do your work better for yourself, decorate your day by broadcasting your own pleasure. You broadcast that. Be kind to yourself because it makes you feel better, and share that with others. Hug your children because there is love in you, not just if you get it from another. Our task is to create in ourselves enough tenderness, patience, responsibility for ourselves, and love so that we have something to give to others. Only then does love grow in us. And only then others reciprocate. Try it I wish you to find your love. In yourself first. Good morning! ❤