@Gerl 7 February 2021 more from that month

https://read.cash/@gerl/how-do-you-stop-comparing-yourself-to-others-2e44d4ca Comparing ourselves to others allows them to drive our behavior. ... Sometimes this comparison is motivating and sometimes it's destructive. You can be anything but you can't be everything. When we compare ourselves to others, we're often comparing their best features against our average ones.