@Gerl 19 April 2021 more from that month

The more you know who you are, and what you want, the less you let things upset you. As you get older, you develop a greater understanding of what makes you feel happy or miserable, comfortable or painful, interested or depressed. Your ongoing skills allow you to refine your tastes, interests, and values, and you begin to recognize the significance of living by yourself. It's as simple as knowing what kind of music you like to listen to and what kinds of things you like to read.