Our past haunts us, and we dont want to happened it again. It becomes our nightmare we dont want to dream it again. But the more we stay away and avoid it will come back unknowingly. And we must face it so that it will turn its back from us without pushing them away from us. It takes a little courage and bravery to handle it, because two things are the effects of this scenario, it will build you to be a better person or it will break you to become a bad person. Be wise in dealing the situatuons. Its not a black and white scheme. Be firm in every decisions.