Its our Filipino cultures to have extended families. And the truth, they are concerned about what is going on to our family. Like your mother in law, will keep asking how is your everyday in the house. Everything, the food you prepare how you raised your children. Either we like it or not, it is a Filipino culture embeded in our blood. We cannot go away from it. But to embrace, love the family of our husband and wives. No matter what we do, good or bad our in laws will talk about us. And no matter what we do we are always a villain from their sights but continue to be good.