Bad advices widely accepted

I'm sure we've heard or seen some advise since the beginning of this year, or since the day we were born, and we've sometimes accepted it.

I'd like to provide some advise that I believe is not perfect and has implications, which are as follows:

1. Never Go To Bed Angry

I believe this is one of the notions I disagree with; sometimes when someone actually upsets me, the best thing I can do is go to bed early because if I stay awake, I'll be wondering about why he/she would do this to me the entire time, and I'll be crying on the inside.

You can't just stay up all night pondering about what made you upset and attempting to come up with a suitable solution while you're angry; it won't work; you need to sleep off your rage, and when you wake up the next day, your indignation will have evaporated, and you'll be able to solve the problem.

I've had days where I've been angry all day and then gotten a few hours of sleep, only to wake up wondering why such a minor event could make me so angry...... Sometimes all we need is a good night's sleep.

2. Always Be Yourself

This does not always work for everyone; we are not all the same; some individuals are short tempered, and you can easily elicit their rage.... Imagine encouraging them to be themselves; it's weird, isn't it?

3. There are plenty of fish in the river

Most people, in my opinion, misunderstand this quote. There are plenty of fish in the river is a saying that is said to someone who is of marriageable age but begins to make excuses for various reasons, which is where this phrase comes into play because there are plenty of single men and women in the world.

People make the mistake of thinking that because there are so many fish in the river, they can marry and still pursue other single people. This is completely false.

4. If you ask a girl out and she says no, keep trying

If a girl doesn't want you, there's nothing wrong with moving on; you'll find someone better; she can't possibly be the best in the earth.

5. Money doesn't buy happiness

When people ask me whether I'll be happy if I'm homeless or if I'll be happy if I can't afford basic necessities and believe money can't buy happiness, I always chuckle.

Though there are some things that money cannot buy, it is the primary source of happiness for most people. If you ask me what I want next to money, I will undoubtedly say more money.

6. You're still young

This has really ruined a lot of people Life z thinking they still have time to chase a lot of things and thereby relaxing more and thinking when they are older they would pursue their dreams, not knowing everything starts from the young stage.

Final Thoughts

We should be wary about taking advise from strangers, especially on social media; not everything works out well.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.💙