We've gone through a lot while growing up and I'm positive we have learnt one or two lessons though we haven't experienced some but as time goes on we will definitely realize some of these advise I'm about to list out and we should always remember because it will help us along the way
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1. The past can't be altered.
The reality is that the past is simply a memory or history now, it is no longer real ( it's no longer right here or not happening again ), you can't change what has happened, you can only think about it and You can also try to change the manner of which you bear in mind it.
The best thing you can do to yourself is try and work better and aim for better goals, develop yourself, think positively, learn something new, don't be stagnant and in that way, you will realize that you are better than the person you were 5,10,20 years ago.
“What is gone is gone" accept it.
2. It's okay to let go and move on.
We all have someone we that we once love or showed care towards them. But when the relationship got toxic, you didn't want to leave......you wanted to change the person but it seemed impossible, so you had to end the relationship. For me, if you did this that's fantastic, I really respect you.
But for some people and for some reasons they can't let go of that person after the relationship has ended may be they don't know how to move on they still
Think of the person constantly
Spend more time reliving their memories
They bring them more often when discussing with their friends
And finally always wander what could have been if they were together.
My advise is just try and let go and move on, trust me you don't want to go back to that toxic relationship.
3. Everyone's journey is unique.
Life is a adventure packed with lessons, hardships, heartaches, joys, celebrations and unique moments ( good and bad) to be able to get to our destination. The path might not be smooth; in fact, at some point of our journey, we can come across many demanding situations. But we should have it in back of our minds that every situation we've encountered is adjusting us to be a better person.
4. Kindness is free
Being kind doesn't cost us anything, it's effortless try and show kindness each day to everyone around you. It doesn't have to be money it can be the way you talk to them or assist them.
Be kind towards those people that are unkind because they are the ones that really need it, don't be partial about kindness. Colour, tribe, religion shouldn't be the reason of you being kind to and one person and unkind to another person.
5. Your thoughts affect your mood.
Whatever you think of that's what you would attract. If you think positively about yourself, positive shall you attract and if it is negative, same shall you attract.
Always be positive even in tomes when your chances of survival is slim, have that little faith that everything is going to be alright.
Final thought
You might already know this but I still have to put it out here. “ the world ain't just sunshine and rainbow it is a very mean place, it doesn't care how tough you are, it will beat you and keep it to your knees if you let it. If you know what you worth and what you want you must be ready to take that hit and keep moving forward and stop pointing fingers at him/her saying they were reason you are not where you at, you are better than that.
Thanks for reading❤
Till next time.
Oh i can totally relate with your thoughts affect your mood. Sometimes I feel so excited and wanted to share how excited I am, but when I thought that maybe they won't feel the same as me, I will feel hesitant and turned my excitement to sadness.