@FrappeAsh 11 November 2020 more from that month

Can I be your MAN

HOW DOES A PERSON BECOME A MAN? Is it because he was a he? Is it because he was strong than others? Is it because "it was what you should be"? Is it about your physical appearance?

"Man" in the dictionary refers to an individual representing the species without reference to sex, the human race, or human kind. BEING a true man is not about the looks, but how he acts as a person. It is not defined by money, power and intelligence but by the purity of your heart. It's not based on the skills that you have naturally or gained though trainings or deep studies but how you use and apply it to help and uplift others who are in need of support and guidance. It's also not about gender, being a man or a woman does not give you the title to become a Man: but how you use your voice and physical differences to inspire and extend help, moreover it is the goodness of your heart, mind, and soul. It is not seen just by having a pretty face, white skin, shining and silky hair, or having a perfect nose, eyes even jaw, being true to yourself is the Key, having a pretty face is nonsense if you can't use it in the right way, there are lots of people who easily judge the looks of a person on the other hand we should always look for the goodness inside and out; after all looks can be deceiving, we cannot tell the hidden agenda of the people around us.

Maybe you'll disagree about the things written on, but take a look on a much better perspective where there is peacefulness, fairness and equity apllied in everything not just for the people. Take this as an eye opener on how to view the world in a beautiful way. WE all know that "Every MAN has a ROLE to PLAY in this world", we can be a hero, we can choose to be the good ones, We can be the better version of ourselves, but as the days passes by, we are facing silent cries and silent battles that cannot be seen in physical manner but passes through emotions. That's when we learn that even the good man was challenged by time and circumstances.

Being challenged by the Time and Circumstances changes a person from being the good one to the bad one, it gives them an idea that even you choose to be good and upright there will come a time, where you will play the role of being the bad one and that's the time you have chosen to be the villain version of yourself. Upon making your decision "Choosing to be the villain version of yourself" have you ever wondered 'what is ahead of you', what will you get in return, will it do you good, will it benefit you as a person?, As a person it is easy for us to take the easy way, we wanted everything in an instant, we are afraid to face hardships and struggles. However have you ever heard of the word "CONSCIENCE", what if "KARMA" hunts you down based on your wrong doings? Will someone help you, will someone save you from the hole that you had made? Try to put yourself on the foot of the person you have done wrong, how would you react?

THIS is where your endurance will be tested, how long will you last, how long are you going to take it, and how your conscience would react., Are you willing to change your principles and beliefs just to get what you really wanted? will you be able to stand on your own once you take that path?, showing your strong side in front of everyone will not make you brave, thus it will be hard for the people you hang out with to know your true self., Even you it will be hard to distinguish your true self when you try change your self you to please others and be 'trendy' so that people will start to value you and accept you.

No one is perfect but We if we change ourselves into someone who is not you, then you'll start to loose yourself in the process. What makes a Good person change into Bad person? Think deeper what would happen if our world would be full of people who doesn't have conscience or doesn't show humanity at all? What would happen to the young ones, to the weak ones, to the people who cannot afford to fight for themselves? Are they going to stay from who or what they are or will they take the same way as the bad people who used to mock, bully, and abuse them? What if all of us changed into something we are not.

We cannot turn back time so we have to be careful in everything we do or act, even with our choice of words, Do not let fury, hatred, revenge run in the midst of us; but let us be loving, forgiving and understanding for each and everyone, let us not be fooled of the fancy things that only exist in this world but rather fill your hearts with joy, always put your feet on the ground, and choose the better version of yourself, don't let your insecurity eat you at the very end of your life hence show the world the beauty of having a good heart, mind and soul. Spend your time wisely and be happy, be free from sins; so you'll have a peaceful and a quiet place to live with.

Always remember there are battles which are not worth fighting for. Always set your priorities straight, moral and upright so that you will worry less and stress free. Protect your inner peace as how you protect your loved one's, the things important to you and continue serving the Lord and spread his words not just by words but through your actions, remeber that you are one of the chosen to rise up, lead and follow the foot steps of our loving creator. Draw near him and he will take your pain, suffering and monsters away; always take him with you and he will guide you, guard you and take down all the worries you have, hence he will prosper you and continue to bless you.

Carry your bible it will shed you lessons of life, Pray all the time it will allow you to be at ease and calm down, Talk to God it will bring you love and fill your cup, Rest inside the house of the Lord, Eat & stay healthy so you can spend time with him, Learn to ask everytime and give thanks everytime not just when you are problematic or down, help yourself to connect and re-connect to him. Listen to his words and follow his commands so his angels will welcome you to his dwelling place when your time is up here in our world.