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What in your opinion does a single lady need most before getting set for marriage relationship
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Well for me it's "MATURITY" because everything will follow as long as you are mature enough. Mature people tend to have quality decisions than those immature ones.
Please can you specify areas of maturity you are referring to? I asked this because most single seems to be focused on one area of their lives
Maturity to handle things, mature in making decisions, as in mature in a whole. Mature enough to take risk on entering marriage.
👏 you have done well, you can do for a classical marriage counselor lol
Hahaha this made me laugh 😂 Actually it's easier to say than to act on it anyway. I'm good at advising people but can't advise myself sometimes lol.
You take it from here, after all Oprah started somewhere
A stable life, being independent I suppose, because if a lady can stand on her own, she can do things her way and she wouldn't depend on her husband.
Being stable doesn't mean a lady can do things independently in a marriage relationship. There is what i called behavioral and duty agreement in a marriage. This means a set of agreed pattern of relating to one another, and an agreed set of duty to continuously perform in a relationship. These may go against your independent status, but to maintain your marriage relationship you will have to abide by the agreed pattern with your partner
Hmm. Yeah. And that's exactly why I dont want to be married or to be in a relationship at least.
What exactly is so important about being independent, the truth is that no one is truly independent. Our lives revolves around others, and not until we learn to include others in our daily routine life is meaningless and boring. Everything has its time, you need to properly prepared to be in serious relationship, it is sacrifice. And if you are not ready to sacrifice you aren't fulfilling your role in life.
In a kid now and that is all matters to me right now. For me, being in a relationship is like a temporary prison and marriage is a permanent cage. Sorry but that is my opinion about marriage. Just saying what I feel.
Well, that is what the world has made it to be. And many believe it to be so, but i tell you the truth not until you are married you will never how to be truly free. It is in a marriage you enjoy secured freedom and independent. Except only if your spouse is not a good blend for you, that's when you may lose your freedom. This is why time and patience is needed before going into marriage. Your opinion and position about marriage makes the conversation healthy